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I haven't DCd in months
I have forsaken my satin pillowcase and bonnet
I have been rendezvousing unabashedly with mineral oil products and my hair loves it
 
I've been slacking on deep conditioning. I flat ironed my hair on Saturday and I'm about to wash and flat iron again tonight. I am going to Henna and then DC first tho.
 
I've been slacking on my Twist Challenge. I wore my hair out in a wash n go and got complimented. I have yet to color my grays.:blush: I've been itching to try straightening my hair via blow dryer/ flat iron. I left my Nioxin vitamins for a spell and now I'm back on it. Can someone tell me why daily co washing feels so good? That's what is messing with my twist flow right now.:rolleyes::giggle:
 
BostonMaria said:
MBL is still long right? Well in the real world it is. In here, not so much :lachen:


MsLizziA I probably won't cut it. I'm just being stupid. I can picture my 40 year old a** crying after the hair cut :grin: Dayum I was hoping nobody read that post
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BostonMaria ... yea in the real world it is! in here its like.. PSSH :perplexed thats all you are is MBL? ~rolls eyes~
 
MarriageMaterial said:
lesedi I thought I read somewhere we aren't suppose to use those fine tooth combs?
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MarriageMaterial
in general, no we're not. But how do you get a smooth press without one? I can only get swang when i do the comb-chase method and i'm not straightening my whole head just for it to be stiff as board when i'm done. I do detangle thoroughly with a wide-tooth comb beforehand though
 
im in the baggy challenge and i dont think i like baggying anymore...
i cant stop constantly "picking" and touching my hair...i know it's bad for it but i cant stop!!!
 
I gave up on transitioning, made an appointment to texlax next Saturday. I haven't used my hair therapy heating cap in 2 weeks!
 
I flat ironed my hair too much this month (at least six times)
I've been slacking on my moisturizing and sealing.
Last week, I DC for the first time since May.
 
I'm in bad shape I put yarn braids back in my hair about a month or so ago. I have yet to wash condition dc moisturize or even wet my head yet. WTF i do have a lot going on right now but I haven't neglected my hair like this in years it looks a dry mess.
 
I'm doing everything I should be doing in terms of treatment - I deep condition weekly with great conditioners; I use good quality products that work well with my hair...

Nonetheless, I have been slacking big time on protective styling. And that's really where I've been a bad Naijamerican. :nono: I have single strand knots and split ends and sometimes I just pull them out. :nono:
 
We got a lotta SSK- and knot-pulling up in here. Add me to the list! I just get annoyed with them now; where has my patience gone??

Oh annnnd I slept without my satin scarf a few times.

Fine fine fine....I also failed my personal braided up in 2011 challenge. There...I said it....
 
I said no more wash and goes for me and I'm right back at them. I don't care, I love them, and my hair sheds/breaks too much for all those styles I was doing. Buns and WNGs for now.
 
Softerlove said:
Bublin. I know!!!! It just started so innocently with a little shoulder lift...them both shoulders, them before I knew it my head was titled back, the camera was out and I was claiming BSL! :Look:

You know you have done it lol!

Sent from my MyTouch 4G
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Softerlove
:lachen::lachen::lachen:
when i was APL relaxed, i near enough did the limbo to look like i was WSL:lol:
 
Slacking on DC.
Using rubberbands
Improper detangling
Slacking on mositurizing and sealing the ends every night
Overall, no TLC for my hair
 
I flat ironed my hair 3x over 4 days because it kept puffing up and i wanted it super straight (im natural). I know my hair hates me. I flat ironed more in those three days then I have done all year.
Hangs head in shame
 
I have been doing a good job w/ washing and deep conditioning my hair but I confess to
-not having enough patience to detangle my hair...I start from the top the bottom most times
-I'm mad that my sister grows faster than mine and only washes her once a month.
- I pull out my ssks instead of cutting them
-I LOVE heat (blowdryers, flatirons, curling wands and curling irons) but it will cause my hair damage (I already damaged my human lace wig by putting heat on it everyday)
-I have been reading the heat training thread and secretly want to start even though my hair feels better w/o heat.
 
I don't DC ever. I think the last time was spring of last year. Pretty much, the thing I've done all summer is wash and leave conditioner in it... I'm being hair lazy.

Eta- sometimes I'm so lazy, if I encounter a tangle, I just leave it and slap some more conditioner on that spot and hope when I cowash the next day, it will slide out.
 
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I have not combed my hair in like a month
I have not moisturized my hair in like 2 weeks
I have allowed my coily clumps to start dreading while being in this bun that I haven't taken out in 2 weeks
 
I had a hussy fit a few weeks about how I hated relaxing my hair due to the fact that I could not make up my mind on which no lye relaxer to use. Well, I got over it a few days later and did a touch up with ORS no lye...... I think I like the Lye formula better. :look: I have noticed a decrease in tangles which is good but my hair is much drier now.
 
My hair is in braids and I have forsaken deep conditioning because I don't think i need it :x I just use my braid spritz twice daily (lavender & rosemary essential oils, jojoba, olive oil, aloe vera juice and spring water)

I usually wash once a week but I forgot last week so I'm just gonna ride it out until party weekend...ignoring build up like a mug.

Should I DC? :perplexed
 
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Well these are old confessions and new :

I slept with no cap on for awhile
I had a sew in and didn't moisturize properly which ended up with me having breakage
I didn't blow my hair out when I put in kinky twist nor did I twist it to stretch it which equaled more breakage but they are still in and I'm doctoring my hair now.
I also wash n go alot this summer which is horrible on my head since I was doing it every other day thanks to the fact the humidity shrunk EVERY style I created.

I really need to stop being lazy cause its killing my hair but after these twist come out I will do better .
 
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