Coloring: He calls you a sl*t.... What do you do?

[BrownBetty]

Hi Ladies,

I was reading a "colorful story" and the guy says to the girl "strip for me my little sl*t". This got me wondering if:

a) Do guys do this?
b) How do women respond? Do they enjoy it?

I have had my fair share of coloring sessions. I have never had anyone call me a sl*t, h*e, b8tch etc... no matter how sexy they tried to make it seem.

Has this every happened to you? How did you react? Did you like it?

What say you?

BB

 

[Mai Tai]

My ex tried to pull that mess with me one time..asking me was I going to be his little " h-e". I instantly stopped him, and checked him right on the spot. Never happened again...

 

[ladysaraii]

Eh some people like it. To each their own

 

[Mortons]

If we are in a serious relationship I dont see the problem

 

[coachchica]

that's a huge turnoff for me. I have not had anyone do that thank goodness but if they did, coloring would be over. my watercolors would dry up immediately

 

[ScorpioBeauty09]

Some people like it but I'm not one of them. I don't care if we're exclusive or even married. I'd stop the coloring right then and get him told.

 

[intergalacticartist]

LMAO
Some people are kinky like that. To each their own

I guess it's because a "slut" is someone who's really sexual, or like sex and I guess because it's taboo to be really sexual it adds to the experience

 

[MzLady78]

As long as they stop if you tell them you don't like it, I don't think it's that big a deal. It's just one of those things you have to be able to communicate openly about. As much as it seems like common sense, sometimes people forget that everybody might not be into what you're into.

 

[belleama]

Sometimes in the heat of the moment people say things... Well *I* say things and well sometimes those things are not for virgin ears. But yeah, if we're coloring just right no-no words make it HAWT. But if it's not just right or he's weird then the no-no words get him a #neveragaininthislifetime.

Like the other ladies said to each their own.

 

[BrownBetty]

I was just curious...

No judgement from me. I know everyone doesn't like everything.

 

[Charz]

I'd take that over having to call him "daddy"

 

[Ivonnovi]

I can't take that stuff. MAJOR TURNOFF. Nope not for me, I'd dry up faster than Herman Cains election campaign.

But then I've known some messed up people in my lifetime so I have a strong zero policy; if you want a slut go find one. I'm not a prude but my nasty talk tolerence only goes so far.

 

[snillohsss]

I can't help but LOL at this. Remember that Sex and the City episode where the dude Charlotte was sexing would yell out--- "You f*cking *****, you f*cking whore!" when he...um... came? ...and he had no idea he was doing it?

I "died" at that episode....just dead.

 

[NYAmicas]

SO & I enjoy dirty talk so I have no issue with it.

 

[MzLady78]

I can't help but LOL at this. Remember that Sex in the City episode where the dude Charlotte was sexing would yell out--- "You f*cking *****, you f*cking whore!" when he...um... came? ...and he had no idea he was doing it?

I "died" at that episode....just dead.

snillohsss, OMG, with prissy a** Charlotte? I need to find this episode!

 

[SelahOco]

snillohsss, OMG, with prissy a** Charlotte? I need to find this episode!

It was hilarious. She looked mortified.

 

[C@ssandr@]

Hi Ladies,

I was reading a "colorful story" and the guy says to the girl "strip for me my little sl*t". This got me wondering if:

a) Do guys do this?
b) How do women respond? Do they enjoy it?

I have had my fair share of coloring sessions. I have never had anyone call me a sl*t, h*e, b8tch etc... no matter how sexy they tried to make it seem.

Has this every happened to you? How did you react? Did you like it?

What say you?


BB

Yes, there are men who do this.

Yes, there are many of us who enjoy it. It's called roleplay

There are many of us out here who are kinky and don't mind it. If it's not your thing, then tell your partner to stop.

eta: I've also done the dirty talk thing and ended up hurting my bf's feelings...that only happened once. The rest of my partners loved it. And yes, we're "normal" people.

I'm surprised with all the other way-out-there kinks that exist, that this one is still a big deal. Meh.

 

[BillsBackerz67]

Wouldnt bother me....you should hear the words that come out of my mouth Sometimes Im shocked after the fact

 

[C@ssandr@]

Hi Ladies,

I was reading a "colorful story" and the guy says to the girl "strip for me my little sl*t". This got me wondering if:

a) Do guys do this?
b) How do women respond? Do they enjoy it?

I have had my fair share of coloring sessions. I have never had anyone call me a sl*t, h*e, b8tch etc... no matter how sexy they tried to make it seem.

Has this every happened to you? How did you react? Did you like it?

What say you?

BB

By the way, OP, people do alotttt of things behind closed doors that they would never admit to. Porn is a multi-billion dollar industry (with a lil something for everybody...) and men are not the only ones entertaining their fantasies. Chances are that some of us upthread are frontin' too. no offense ladies, lol

 

[belleama]

Wouldnt bother me....you should hear the words that come out of my mouth Sometimes Im shocked after the fact

 

[*~*Afrolicious*~*]

I'd laugh

 

[*SkolarStar*]

Meh. I've said worse.

 

[A856]

During that time...It can be a "term of endearment"

 

[JayAnn0513]

I'd laugh

Hysterically... Sex would be over.

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[Do_Si_Dos]

call him a b!t@*!

 

[Windsy]

Thought this thread would've been a lot spicier by now....yall slipping ladies....

 

[MD_Lady]

Sometimes in the heat of the moment people say things... Well *I* say things and well sometimes those things are not for virgin ears. But yeah, if we're coloring just right no-no words make it HAWT. But if it's not just right or he's weird then the no-no words get him a #neveragaininthislifetime.

Like the other ladies said to each their own.

IMO, there's DEFINITELY a right way and a wrong way to talk dirty (and for me, calling me a $lut, wh0re, b!tch is the wrong way).

 

[C@ssandr@]

But what if I'm throwing it down like a sl*t, wh*re, b!tch?

 

[A856]

Thought this thread would've been a lot spicier by now....yall slipping ladies....

EXACTLY!!!

By the way, OP, people do alotttt of things behind closed doors that they would never admit to. Porn is a multi-billion dollar industry (with a lil something for everybody...) and men are not the only ones entertaining their fantasies. Chances are that some of us upthread are frontin' too. no offense ladies, lol

Ok all the other threads talking about getting choked/spanked during rough sex; one night stands etc.
I'm pretty sure he's not calling you "honeybun" or "sweet pea" . If so how corny....

 

[Tamster]

i would get it poppin.