This is a really good discussion, ladies.
To the quoted, I'm not going to lie, what you've said pretty much sums up what we are "seeing" in this society ... at least on the surface. But, at the risk of me sounding naive or optimistic or, in spiritual terms, faithful, maybe what we are seeing are lies or an exaggeration. I had to think about it: How many black Christian women in their 30s do I know who are currently single? A lot. How about in their 40s? A lot but less. How about in their 50s? Even less.
So, the question is, are we seeing the effects as described in the quote (shortage of Christian men leading to fewer marriages or even unequally yoked marriages)? or are we just getting married later in life? Maybe the truth will come in the next few generations. I'm hoping that in spite of the sin in this world, God's gift of marriage is still thriving.
I just refuse to believe that the many of us who have this desire will never be married. I mean, why would He allow such a desire to remain in us if He did not put it there (this is assuming we are our A game in our spiritual walk)?
P.S. If my post comes off rude, forgive me. I'm trying to paint a tone of curiosity and it's more frustration at the situation among single Christian women (especially black) than you or any other poster here.