anniversary n. , pl. -ries . The annually recurring date of a past event, especially one of historical, national, or personal importance:
It's only cheesy... if you invite Kraft to your party
Lovely,have your anniversary party...invite your loved ones....
if it is in your heart to do so...and cherish the memories
Spiritually you are being called to do it..you never know
and as Tiara says what better reason to gather in the name of love
Better gather now than when someone is not on this earthly plane
Do not regret NOT having done something you and your sweetheart
long to do because Emily Post
would have you adhere to some silly formalized social set of rules
and other's gossip which have nothing to do with love
I'm also a firm believer in creating your own ritual that is of deep personal
meaning to you
and that the universe recognizes and rewards....a step out of the box
congrats on four years of courtship bliss
May God bless you