Can I ask a DUMB question

Forgive me if it's been asked.... Im a transitioner. Why does my scalp become tender at times?
Why are my relaxed ends more tangled than the natural hair?

Does relaxing for years change the intial new growth?


here is one i just learned, since i am new at transitioning....my stylist who has a specialty in helping relaxed or texlaxed women transition, says that relaxers and products like them (texturizers, no lye, and lye relaxers, etc) numb the scalp to a degree. i guess from the chemicals....so when you stop relaxing, your scalp starts to "feel" again. it may seem tender for awhile until you get used to it. (this may take months):perplexed

hth.......
 
Me too! I think I heard it on an episode of Golden Girls...lol. Anyway my dumb question is how is rollersetting not direct heat, and better for your hair than blow drying? It takes an hour plus to rollerset my hair and only 15 minutes to blow dry.

blow drying applies heat directly to each strand of hair. the speed in which the hair dries is actually a negative because the water is basically being "burned" off each strand. if done excessively or without heat protectant can cause damage to the cuticle of the hair and lead to breakage, etc.

rollersetting uses a lower heat setting than blow dryers and the hot air doesn't directly touch each strand of hair. instead the heat circulates through the dryer and only directly touches some of the hair. the hair directly hit by the heat is hair that is usually in the middle of the strand which is stronger than the entire length of the hair being exposed to hot air like in blow drying. also because the air circulates through the dryer and your hair is wet, the water evaporates, allowing the hair to dry, opposed to the water being "burned" off by the hot air of a blow dryer.

a good way to think of it, is slow baking something with a foil cover on top so the food steams and remains moisturized but still cooks. opposed to frying something in a dry pan. (typing that just made me want some fried chicken.....:lol:)

hth:yep:
 
OT: I just started lurking this thread around page 40...these are some great questions! Looks like I'll be reading 1-39 and jotting down some notes wherever I lack.
 
Should I use a leave in conditioner in addition to a regular conditioner? I am interested in trying Salerm 21- Leave in. But I also use Etaé Silk Protein Conditioner.
 
blow drying applies heat directly to each strand of hair. the speed in which the hair dries is actually a negative because the water is basically being "burned" off each strand. if done excessively or without heat protectant can cause damage to the cuticle of the hair and lead to breakage, etc.

rollersetting uses a lower heat setting than blow dryers and the hot air doesn't directly touch each strand of hair. instead the heat circulates through the dryer and only directly touches some of the hair. the hair directly hit by the heat is hair that is usually in the middle of the strand which is stronger than the entire length of the hair being exposed to hot air like in blow drying. also because the air circulates through the dryer and your hair is wet, the water evaporates, allowing the hair to dry, opposed to the water being "burned" off by the hot air of a blow dryer.

a good way to think of it, is slow baking something with a foil cover on top so the food steams and remains moisturized but still cooks. opposed to frying something in a dry pan. (typing that just made me want some fried chicken.....:lol:)

hth:yep:

Thank you so much for such a detailed and informative answer. It makes sense now!
 
SOOO. When I want to straighten my I hair. I apply heat protectant then blow dry. Do I have to re-apply it to flat iron?
 
When you wear the bun as a protective style, how do you keep your ends from getting looking hard when you tuck the ends underneath? I moisture my ends very well with oil and conditioner, even the LTR. When I take the ends out after wearing the bun all day, my ends look hard sometimes and when I comb, hair come out.
 
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How do you do this?? I see a lot of people doing this. How/where do you find the clips???

Forgive me if this has been asked before...
 
When you wear the bun as a protective style, how do you keep your ends from getting looking hard when you tuck the ends underneath? I moisture my ends very well with oil and conditioner, even the LTR. When I take the ends out after wearing the bun all day, my ends look hard sometimes and when I comb, hair come out.
To me, it sounds like your hair doesn't like the products you're using OR it could be your bunning technique. My moisturizer is Bee Mine Balanced Cream Moisturizer and seal with avocado oil. I ponytail my hair and then fan my hair around (like how you would if you were doing a donut bun) to form a bun and pin the hair. So my "tucking my ends" is done with fanning my hair around in a bun. I don't actually tuck my ends under the ponytail holder. Hope that makes sense. Questions? Let me know.
 
Should I use a leave in conditioner in addition to a regular conditioner? I am interested in trying Salerm 21- Leave in. But I also use Etaé Silk Protein Conditioner.

People usually use a leave in conditioner b/c the regular one gets washed out, and as the hair drys you'll lose moisture, therefore you leave in a conditioner to keep your hair moist. Personally I don't skip this step b/c it has really helped in the styling and upkeep of my hair after I'm done washing. But whatever works for your hair, keep doing it. Another thing you can do if you think a leave in conditioner isn't for you is to apply your favorite oil to your damp hair to seal some moisture in. OR you can leave a little bit of your reg. condish in your hair and call it your leave in. :o
 
okkayye, for all the leave in reg conditioner ladies, how much reg con do you leave in?


Is it similar as if you were cowashing your hair but instead of rinsing you just dry and jet???


or like what do you do??
 
To me, it sounds like your hair doesn't like the products you're using OR it could be your bunning technique. My moisturizer is Bee Mine Balanced Cream Moisturizer and seal with avocado oil. I ponytail my hair and then fan my hair around (like how you would if you were doing a donut bun) to form a bun and pin the hair. So my "tucking my ends" is done with fanning my hair around in a bun. I don't actually tuck my ends under the ponytail holder. Hope that makes sense. Questions? Let me know.
Thank You Divachyk. From what you just said, I think I see what my problem is now. :-)
 
okkayye, for all the leave in reg conditioner ladies, how much reg con do you leave in?


Is it similar as if you were cowashing your hair but instead of rinsing you just dry and jet???


or like what do you do??
I often wondered this and what I have found that it's situational, based on your hair needs. I typically work with my hair in 4 quadrants and was trying to stick with a nickel size amount per quadrant. To me, that wasn't enough, so now I just use my judgment. I apply until I feel it's enough. I find that I need more product when I'm deeper in a stretch than when I'm freshly TU'd. I'd be interested to hear if others find something different than what I have.
 
OMG I can't believe I finally got through all 43 pages! This thread is great, i've learned a lot. Thanks ladies!
 
I was unable to read all pages, so I apologize if this question has been posted already. I know what bsl stands for, but what does bsb mean?
 
Apologies if this has already been asked but what is henna? I'm aware that some indians use henna for mendhi but I see some people posting that they use henna every two weeks in their regimen what exactly are the benefits for using it on hair?
 
Apologies if this has already been asked but what is henna? I'm aware that some indians use henna for mendhi but I see some people posting that they use henna every two weeks in their regimen what exactly are the benefits for using it on hair?

This site has alllllll the answers that you need on henna.
Henna for Hair

Its the same henna that they use for mendhi.. and many of them also use it in their hair
 
Okay, I have two questions.

I've never tried Argon oil. Why is it so popular on this board? I might want to try it.

Secondly, what exactly is tex-laxed hair?
 
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