LovelyNaps26
Well-Known Member
Hey Ladies,
I just read the "Marriage Issues" sticky thread in the relationship forum and one of the things that concerned me was that for some women birth control lowered their libido, leading to problems around sex early in their marriage.
I don't like the idea of hormones but b/c I'm a virgin I'm not sure what other things I can use. Obviously I can use a condom but what's the purpose of being abstinent and then have to use a condom with my husband?
I've done a google search but the only other option, Family Planning method, seems wishy washy since my cycle, about once a year, starts a few days earlier than normal. Plus that would mean a good 2 weeks of abstinence when i include my time of the month. That's not what i envisioned of married life at allerplexed
If you have any suggestions I'd love to hear. I'm asking mostly out of curiosity since I'm not even engaged. Feel free to PM me if you would rather it not be on the thread.
I just read the "Marriage Issues" sticky thread in the relationship forum and one of the things that concerned me was that for some women birth control lowered their libido, leading to problems around sex early in their marriage.
I don't like the idea of hormones but b/c I'm a virgin I'm not sure what other things I can use. Obviously I can use a condom but what's the purpose of being abstinent and then have to use a condom with my husband?
I've done a google search but the only other option, Family Planning method, seems wishy washy since my cycle, about once a year, starts a few days earlier than normal. Plus that would mean a good 2 weeks of abstinence when i include my time of the month. That's not what i envisioned of married life at allerplexed
If you have any suggestions I'd love to hear. I'm asking mostly out of curiosity since I'm not even engaged. Feel free to PM me if you would rather it not be on the thread.