I love this thread.
I Met my SO in October 2012 and I gave him a hard side eye for the first 6 months because I wasn't tryna be cuffed!!!
Even after we started exclusively dating 2 months in, I was still ready to drop and forget him at a moment's notice if he started acting funny.
I remember one week he canceled two dates in a row. He said he was sick, but I wasn't having it. I didn't complain or even let him know that I was mad. I just deleted his number and all of our text messages. It was so funny because less than an hour after I did, he showed up at my door sniffling and sneezing. I had to pretend I needed him to text me some information so that I could get his number back again.
He's lucky he randomly decided to show up. If I didn't see that he was sick for myself, I would've dropped him.
Almost 2 years later, we're still together.
I don't regret being cautious at first though. Ain't nobody got time fa dat!
ETA: After we had been together for a while, I told him about how I deleted his number and almost dropped him and he was surprised. He said something like "Damn!!! I had no idea. Glad I stopped by." Then he called me crazy lol. Whatever haha.