I agree. Elucence is off the chain! My hair is soft before I put any products on it. That is nothing short of a miracle for my hair. Creme of Nature is good, but it builds up on me after a while. I also like spray detanglers like Ion Anti-Frizz Leave-In. Pre-shampoo hot oil treatments help, too.
Someone posted a tip recently about detangling while the conditioner is still in the hair. I haven't tried this yet, but it sounds good.