Alright, I'ma put my business out there. I have an innocent crush on a guy I work with, whom I know has a girlfriend - a serious girlfriend.
Some details:
- I call it innocent because I would never act on it.
- I call it a crush because that's just what it is. He's witty and funny and we're basically just straight up goofy and silly when we're around each other. And I like being around him.
But here's the problem: We travel for work - all of us. We all live different places (actually he and I live on opposite costs - he on the east, me on the west) and meet in a third place - it's a group of 10 of us. We stay in the same hotel together. We eat together (sometimes - which gets old). We go out together.
And I never really thought anything of it until a third party came up to me one day after he stopped by in my office to ask me some work related stuff and she was like "I think he's into you" which caught me totally off guard.
So here's my question - at what point does it cross the line from harmless flirting to it becoming the other woman?! I know I'm not at that point - but it wouldn't take much.
Some details:
- I call it innocent because I would never act on it.
- I call it a crush because that's just what it is. He's witty and funny and we're basically just straight up goofy and silly when we're around each other. And I like being around him.
But here's the problem: We travel for work - all of us. We all live different places (actually he and I live on opposite costs - he on the east, me on the west) and meet in a third place - it's a group of 10 of us. We stay in the same hotel together. We eat together (sometimes - which gets old). We go out together.
And I never really thought anything of it until a third party came up to me one day after he stopped by in my office to ask me some work related stuff and she was like "I think he's into you" which caught me totally off guard.
So here's my question - at what point does it cross the line from harmless flirting to it becoming the other woman?! I know I'm not at that point - but it wouldn't take much.