yokoyokogirl
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Ok two issues:
1. I came home from Japan and my parent's house looks like a closet has exploded everywhere. Boxes, bags, clothes, everywhere. Not dirty just incredibly JUNKY. Even my room is filled to the door with my MOM's stuff--I can't even sleep on my bed b/c it's covered in stuff.
How did this happen? And my mom is like "OH you have to help us clean before YOUR guest arrives." So she puts me to slave labor, cutting veggies, cooking meat, vacumning, changing sheets, wrapping presents. Which I don't mind, but then she complains about everything afterwards..."Oh you diced all that bell pepper by hand? You should have used the food processor..." or "Oh did you make the bed up with those sheets? You should have used the new ones". When I went out to get some last minute gifts, my Mom said "What time are you coming back?" Like I'm 15!!!
2. My SO arrived yesterday and instead of coming straight to stay with me, he went to his friends house til the 25th. (Which is ok, he asked if he could do that ok) so he calls me when he gets in, but I had to call him back. I call him back and he's basically ignoring me, talking to his friends wife in the background. I hang up and he doesn't even call me back! Then today, when he calls he mentions nothing about last night. So I asked him for the address of his friends place(since I will go pick him up from there tomorrow) and my SO goes "Why? Are you going to send him a Xmas card?" That really pissed me off.
I'm not on my period, so that can't be it. But I just feel really pissed off at both my Mom and my SO. Be honest. Am I overreacting?
1. I came home from Japan and my parent's house looks like a closet has exploded everywhere. Boxes, bags, clothes, everywhere. Not dirty just incredibly JUNKY. Even my room is filled to the door with my MOM's stuff--I can't even sleep on my bed b/c it's covered in stuff.
How did this happen? And my mom is like "OH you have to help us clean before YOUR guest arrives." So she puts me to slave labor, cutting veggies, cooking meat, vacumning, changing sheets, wrapping presents. Which I don't mind, but then she complains about everything afterwards..."Oh you diced all that bell pepper by hand? You should have used the food processor..." or "Oh did you make the bed up with those sheets? You should have used the new ones". When I went out to get some last minute gifts, my Mom said "What time are you coming back?" Like I'm 15!!!
2. My SO arrived yesterday and instead of coming straight to stay with me, he went to his friends house til the 25th. (Which is ok, he asked if he could do that ok) so he calls me when he gets in, but I had to call him back. I call him back and he's basically ignoring me, talking to his friends wife in the background. I hang up and he doesn't even call me back! Then today, when he calls he mentions nothing about last night. So I asked him for the address of his friends place(since I will go pick him up from there tomorrow) and my SO goes "Why? Are you going to send him a Xmas card?" That really pissed me off.
I'm not on my period, so that can't be it. But I just feel really pissed off at both my Mom and my SO. Be honest. Am I overreacting?