Nasdaq_Diva
Well-Known Member
So, make a long story really short my ex and I have been broken up for 8 months now. I truly thought we'd get married blah, blah. Fast forward to recently. He and my cousin spoke on FB and he was telling her how he thought I hated him. She told him I still love him blah blah, we need to talk.
Now, I know that he's in a relationship (the girl who came between us) with said girl. I got a whole other thread on her and her bs..but I digress. So, he doesn't know that I know this..
We talk last night 1.5hr. I never brought up him having a gf. While talking, He said, "Nasdaq, what are we going to do about US" I told him I've already let him know how I felt a while back, and I'm willing to know what he's feeling. He said, "I barely have time for myself these days" Which, i understood because he's in law school and works as an engineer full time.
During our conversation he tells me about how he was in NYC and thought about me when they passed NYU (that's my dream grad school). I asked why he was up there (since he turned down Columbia Law School some months back) and he said a friend flew him up there he was doing some PR stuff..
So, I went to his FB page (no we're not friends - but I have my ways) and it says he's still in a relationship with this girl. His status message says soemthing about said girlfriend having a show on Bravo. Plus his status picture is of him and her (I'm assuming shot in NYC)
I'm shocked, pissed, and hurt! I just don't understand him! I called him up and he was on his way to class an said he'll call back this afternoon. I told him it was important.
ME: "at what point where you going to tell me you have a girlfriend"
Him: Nasdaq, can we talk about this at 3:30pm
ME: Hell no! I really don't understand you. We finally get to the point where we can have a decent grown up conversation, and you're still lying about BS! You just asked me last night, "nasdaq, what are we going to do about us"
<he tries to interrupt me>
ME: and I told you it was on you. You're the one who said you barely have enough time for yourself, and now I find out you're in a relationship with someone. What, you trying to be a player? Have your cake an eat it too
Him: Can we please talk about this when I call you at 3:30pm. I told him no and hung up!
*sigh*
Tears, why did I allow myself to even think that this time apart would do us some good?! Why did I think he'd at least a small part of him matured in the sense that he could have a genuine conversation with me. I thought we'd at least work up to rebuilding our friendship! I really don't get the point of lying to me STILL!! I mean, really what was the point?
Sadly,
Nasdaq
Now, I know that he's in a relationship (the girl who came between us) with said girl. I got a whole other thread on her and her bs..but I digress. So, he doesn't know that I know this..
We talk last night 1.5hr. I never brought up him having a gf. While talking, He said, "Nasdaq, what are we going to do about US" I told him I've already let him know how I felt a while back, and I'm willing to know what he's feeling. He said, "I barely have time for myself these days" Which, i understood because he's in law school and works as an engineer full time.
During our conversation he tells me about how he was in NYC and thought about me when they passed NYU (that's my dream grad school). I asked why he was up there (since he turned down Columbia Law School some months back) and he said a friend flew him up there he was doing some PR stuff..
So, I went to his FB page (no we're not friends - but I have my ways) and it says he's still in a relationship with this girl. His status message says soemthing about said girlfriend having a show on Bravo. Plus his status picture is of him and her (I'm assuming shot in NYC)
I'm shocked, pissed, and hurt! I just don't understand him! I called him up and he was on his way to class an said he'll call back this afternoon. I told him it was important.
ME: "at what point where you going to tell me you have a girlfriend"
Him: Nasdaq, can we talk about this at 3:30pm
ME: Hell no! I really don't understand you. We finally get to the point where we can have a decent grown up conversation, and you're still lying about BS! You just asked me last night, "nasdaq, what are we going to do about us"
<he tries to interrupt me>
ME: and I told you it was on you. You're the one who said you barely have enough time for yourself, and now I find out you're in a relationship with someone. What, you trying to be a player? Have your cake an eat it too
Him: Can we please talk about this when I call you at 3:30pm. I told him no and hung up!
*sigh*
Tears, why did I allow myself to even think that this time apart would do us some good?! Why did I think he'd at least a small part of him matured in the sense that he could have a genuine conversation with me. I thought we'd at least work up to rebuilding our friendship! I really don't get the point of lying to me STILL!! I mean, really what was the point?
Sadly,
Nasdaq