Re: Avg feelings for a guy that treats u like a QUEEN v. being in love and treated Av
You have this phenomenal guy that's willing to do whatever to make you happy, he loves you unconditionally and meets all of your standards or must haves. He’s exceptional in the way he handles you and the relationship, but at best, you just like him.
--or--
The guy that really has your heart, you love to love him and you are emphatically, undoubtedly head over heels for this guy but he treats you average. Average meaning, he's not cheating or abusive in any form. But he doesn't go over and beyond to make you happy. A sacrifice is a constant fight and he meets the standard but doesn't exceed them.
If you had to choose one which would it be?
Well option number one happened..I blogged about it last year ad naseum
I had a long term satisfying enjoyable dating relationship...{see my LHCF album pictures of my 50th birthday where he took me to an exclusive
hotel restaurant/rooftop... a bottle champagne,chilling in the ice bucket on the roof top lounge, presents,flowers,the works!}
the guy was stellar...super bright ambitous,attractive,outgoing ,confident
had already directed one film with major names
has his own talk show..again with celebrities..film critic ..and really brainy..and super suportive of me and of me and my work,very up and coming..
plans to be bi-coastal in proximity to Hollywood & NY
everything I could want and he thought I was a goddess
and when we began addressing marriage..last year, exclusive courtship came up...he'd only been holding back because he KNEW I was reticent....and the idea was courtship with both committed to an engagement/marriage if all went as it had been...
but I let the relationship go ........I loved him and could see perhaps falling in love if I stayed but ..I dunno...
I felt like ...it wasn't for me..ultimately
#2s....I ditch those.I'm like the old LTD Jefferey Osbourne song
Everytime I turn around... back in love again
w/caveat...I dont stay if it's not reciprocated
ooh lawd..been there done that
I am a bad qualifier for this thread....
sometimes it's not either one or the other I guess
and I am of the radical mind...I CAN HAVE IT ALL
my two pesos