OMG ^^ Is that Benny Hinn in your siggy?
Yes it is. I didn't know of him until this morning. That clip is hilarious!
Yes, I think Atlanta is a fake wannabe professional town!
I am going to need a background story to that clip. What on earth?
Yes it is. I didn't know of him until this morning. That clip is hilarious!
I apologize OP. You mean what in heaven. Benny Hinn is a big time tele-evangelist. He brings folks on stage to heal them by his touch "In the name of Jesus." Generally they get the spirit and fall down as soon as he touches them. Many say they've been healed. Now I see he's ditched touching for flinging his sports coat...... and the folks are still falling like dominoes. Amazing.
Around 40. I typically think he doesn't really want to get married, is exceptionally picky, or is socially inept.
im talkin to this guy who is 33 and im givin him a srs side eye for not bein married yet and only having had 2 srs relationships. and those just lasted a little over a yr. c'mon now. im tryin to get to the bottom of it but dont know how to w.o seeming like im judging or grilling.
a lot of my friends my age (23) are beginning to get married. and im lookin @ this dude like...is you for srs?
so yea...32+
Ladies how do you feel about a guy who was married young around 20 y/o?
He has no children but he is interested in me. I don't want to judge him for getting married and divorced at 20, but it makes me wonder if he is a good decision maker. I personally kinda want me and my future DH to experience marraige for the first time, but I also don't want to sleep on a good potential.
This might not be bad... like anything else, it depends.
Also like you, I've always had this thing about wanting to marry someone who'd never been married either. NOT because being divorced makes you a bad person or anything like that, but it was just really important to me to feel that I was experiencing something for the first time WITH my partner... and not that he'd been there, done that. I think this was because I was a semi-late bloomer in the dating field, and everybody and their mama was telling me that was a good thing because I was just avoiding drama and busters and don't worry, the Lord would send someone when the time was right and all that...
So then to finally start dating and seeing that while I was being patted on the back for "waiting" when I wanted to date, folks were getting married and maybe having kids... and getting divorced... and these were the dudes I got as a reward for "waiting?" Uh, hello, I got robbed!!!! I felt like being a late bloomer made me unfairly forfeit my desire to join with someone and build a life with him.
(Sorry for venting... )
Anyway, I would give this guy a chance. In a way, the fact that he did get married so early could show that he values commitment and doesn't want to play around. Just make sure that he actually learned some lessons from the divorce -- some men think that they were just "young and foolish" and never really examine what went wrong in their first marriage. Second marriages have a high failure rate and I think it's because people don't really fix particular issues that caused the first marriage to go down the tubes.
So... see what he's like, ask some questions when the time is right and make up your mind from there.
Really depends on the situation. If he just got out of a relationship and is single at whatever age, then I don't really think too much of it. I mean, hey sh*t happens. But if he's like 40+, isn't married, isn't recently divorced/broken up, doesn't have a life partner , doesn't have a friend w/ benefits of some sort, then I'm thinking retard, serial killer, hardcore gamer, living in his mama's basement talking about "I PUT MY NAME ON THE ORANGE JUICE!!!" or "I SAID KNOCK WHEN THE DOOR IS CLOSED, YOU HEAR ME? I SAID YOU KNOCK!!!", or smells really bad and no one ever bothered to tell him.
Hrm. It really depends on the guy. I can see a man being a serial monogamist, and never wanting to get married. I respect the fact that he - as he should have - avoided having children if he knew he didn't want to get married.
As long as I didn't want to get married or have children, either - we would work out nicely.