MzLady78
Well-Known Member
I have a friend who will be 41 next week. She has no kids, no SO and as far I know, no prospects.
Now, she and I have had many conversations about men/relationships, etc. She's in mindset that pretty much everything that comes out men's mouth's is a lie. I have honestly never seen anyone less trusting of men in my life.
I, on the other hand, tend to be more of an "innocent until proven guilty" type person. I don't put anything past anyone, but I'm not going to assume that because you have a penis, you're a liar. And I have to wonder if this isn't why she hasn't been able to settle yet. I will say that she and I know A LOT of no good dudes. I mean, guys that have had the same side chick for 10+ years, but couldn't pick his wife out of a line up. I myself went through a period where I was a married man magnet, IDK what it was, but they just kept coming at me.
So I'm wondering for the single ladies, which is your approach when you're dealing with a new guy?
Now, she and I have had many conversations about men/relationships, etc. She's in mindset that pretty much everything that comes out men's mouth's is a lie. I have honestly never seen anyone less trusting of men in my life.
I, on the other hand, tend to be more of an "innocent until proven guilty" type person. I don't put anything past anyone, but I'm not going to assume that because you have a penis, you're a liar. And I have to wonder if this isn't why she hasn't been able to settle yet. I will say that she and I know A LOT of no good dudes. I mean, guys that have had the same side chick for 10+ years, but couldn't pick his wife out of a line up. I myself went through a period where I was a married man magnet, IDK what it was, but they just kept coming at me.
So I'm wondering for the single ladies, which is your approach when you're dealing with a new guy?