brownsugarflyygirl
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Just interested in hearing different perspectives
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I think when you are younger, you can justify to yourself looking past certain things and focusing on someone's "potential" and go from there..when you get older, potential no longer is a factor..if they ain't got it by now, most likely then never will.
I think when you are younger, you can justify to yourself looking past certain things and focusing on someone's "potential" and go from there..when you get older, potential no longer is a factor..if they ain't got it by now, most likely then never will.
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And you realize that it's not all about the lovey-dovey, but whether you can see yourself being a real team with this person.
I think when you are younger, you can justify to yourself looking past certain things and focusing on someone's "potential" and go from there..when you get older, potential no longer is a factor..if they ain't got it by now, most likely then never will.
as i've gotten older, i realized that relationships are supposed to be easy, not complicated. I've learned to let men chase me cause that simplifies everything and saves me a lot of heartache.
I think when you are younger, you can justify to yourself looking past certain things and focusing on someone's "potential" and go from there..when you get older, potential no longer is a factor..if they ain't got it by now, most likely then never will.
Men are men. Being attracted to a "type" thinking they would NEVER do such and such is one of the biggest mistakes you can make.
I once thought dating inexperienced men would make me impervious to heartbreak because I could "teach" them. Guess what? He dumped my ass.
I married a supposed sweet, kind, unassuming nerd and guess what I found out? He has a temper, has severe miserly tendencies, and can be the biggest azzhole you ever met.
So when you meet a man, overlook all those dumb stereotypes. Men will do them regardless, whether they are geeks, nerds, ballers, accountants, Asian, Black, White, purple, or polkadotted.
P.S. They will ALL test boundaries and try to get away with as much as you allow them to.
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And you realize that it's not all about the lovey-dovey, but whether you can see yourself being a real team with this person.
I now realize that a lot of qualities I want in a man I myself should possess.
I now realize that a lot of qualities I want in a man I myself should possess.
You sewed da weave ri on da track with that one!!!!! I totally agree 100%