butterfly_wings
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Ok, so what do you ladies think of this.
Sometimes me and my SO go through difficult spurts, this is one of them. The other day we were talking about interracial relationships. He dated a white woman for 6 months before we met, we’ve been together 3 ½ years. In college I dated a white guy for less than a month. I was saying that I think it is fine but it is easier to date someone from your own race/culture (this is my opinion and I don’t mean to offend anyone).
Later that day I went out for dinner with some old school friends and had a great time, nice to see them and catch up. Anyway she told me about this white guy that I went out with at age 14 has finally come out (LOL, hope that wasn’t me), so me and SO were watching movies and chatting and I mentioned how my friend told me this guy was now gay. Then out of nowhere he went off on one and was saying why didn’t I tell him that it was 2 white guys I went out with, and that we were being open and how I lied and that I always conviently forget things and change my story. I didn’t even really consider that as a relationship as we were kids and it was innocent and we just went to the movies. But he kept going on and on saying how I lied, I told him that this is ridiculous, he says it isn’t down to the fact that it was a white guy but that I lied. After I thought about it I realised that I had told him in passing conversion in the past.
I’m having trouble trying to understand where he is coming from and how I lied?? erplexed
Opinions please!!
Sometimes me and my SO go through difficult spurts, this is one of them. The other day we were talking about interracial relationships. He dated a white woman for 6 months before we met, we’ve been together 3 ½ years. In college I dated a white guy for less than a month. I was saying that I think it is fine but it is easier to date someone from your own race/culture (this is my opinion and I don’t mean to offend anyone).
Later that day I went out for dinner with some old school friends and had a great time, nice to see them and catch up. Anyway she told me about this white guy that I went out with at age 14 has finally come out (LOL, hope that wasn’t me), so me and SO were watching movies and chatting and I mentioned how my friend told me this guy was now gay. Then out of nowhere he went off on one and was saying why didn’t I tell him that it was 2 white guys I went out with, and that we were being open and how I lied and that I always conviently forget things and change my story. I didn’t even really consider that as a relationship as we were kids and it was innocent and we just went to the movies. But he kept going on and on saying how I lied, I told him that this is ridiculous, he says it isn’t down to the fact that it was a white guy but that I lied. After I thought about it I realised that I had told him in passing conversion in the past.
I’m having trouble trying to understand where he is coming from and how I lied?? erplexed
Opinions please!!