amwcah
Well-Known Member
I have been wondering this for the last couple of days. If I see a man I am interested in, I usually just admire him from a distance and hope he looks my way. I really don't feel comfortable approaching a man because I feel he may be disinterested, and try to use me for whatever. Does anyone else feel this way?
BTW, the past three weeks I have been approached by all the wrong type of men. They have been significantly younger than me--try 22, 28, and 31(not so significant) when I am almost 36. The 22 and 31 year olds weren't employed or looking for employment. They are were involved in illegal activity. After two days, the 22 year old wanted to know whether or not he was someone I could develop a serious relationship. I tried avoiding the question, but he was persistent. I told him that he didn't have a job. I continued talking(on the cell phone) and noticed he was not responding. Don't you know this fool hung up on me. I immediately called him back to confirm him hanging up and he did. He continued by stating that me being a teacher and what I drove meant nothing, and he has made more money than I would ever make in a lifetime. I could not get a word in and then he hung up. I couldn't believe that mess. He actually got made because he doesn't have goals. Geee!
For those ladies who do approach men, what are your tactics(pick up lines)? Do things normally work out if you make the first move?
BTW, the past three weeks I have been approached by all the wrong type of men. They have been significantly younger than me--try 22, 28, and 31(not so significant) when I am almost 36. The 22 and 31 year olds weren't employed or looking for employment. They are were involved in illegal activity. After two days, the 22 year old wanted to know whether or not he was someone I could develop a serious relationship. I tried avoiding the question, but he was persistent. I told him that he didn't have a job. I continued talking(on the cell phone) and noticed he was not responding. Don't you know this fool hung up on me. I immediately called him back to confirm him hanging up and he did. He continued by stating that me being a teacher and what I drove meant nothing, and he has made more money than I would ever make in a lifetime. I could not get a word in and then he hung up. I couldn't believe that mess. He actually got made because he doesn't have goals. Geee!
For those ladies who do approach men, what are your tactics(pick up lines)? Do things normally work out if you make the first move?