Anyone here not like colouring so much???

[Ballerina_Bun]

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[michelle81]

Well, I haven't had much coloring experience. There's only been two ever, and I'm now married to the second guy so unless something drastic happens I will probably only have two for my life.

But, I love it. With my ex-boyfriend I hated it and didn't see what everyone was talking about when they said they enjoyed it. With my husband, it's been good since we first started, but it has gotten even better as my love for him has deepened.

If you absolutely don't like it, figure something out, someway to make it better.

I always quote Ludacris when it comes to coloring, "Some say the *** is overrated, but they just ain't doing it right".

I never, ever "climaxed" with my ex, but with DH, well, um it's just different, and I think it's only to this point because I'm completely, totally in love with him.

 

[Imani]

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[FlawedBeauty]

as ludacris said "some say sex is over rated, but they just aint doin it right!"

i kid, i kid. i don't have a prob with it by my best friend just does not like it. she says after like a minute shes ready to call it quits and doesnt enjoy it at all lol.

 

[pinkchocolatedaisy]

h*** yeah! @ the bolded.

Well, I haven't had much coloring experience. There's only been two ever, and I'm now married to the second guy so unless something drastic happens I will probably only have two for my life.

But, I love it. With my ex-boyfriend I hated it and didn't see what everyone was talking about when they said they enjoyed it. With my husband, it's been good since we first started, but it has gotten even better as my love for him has deepened.

If you absolutely don't like it, figure something out, someway to make it better.

I always quote Ludacris when it comes to coloring, "Some say the *** is overrated, but they just ain't doing it right".

I never, ever "climaxed" with my ex, but with DH, well, um it's just different, and I think it's only to this point because I'm completely, totally in love with him.

 

[GV-NA-GI-TLV-GE-I]

We can't even discuss sex without euphemisms. What's the deal? It's sex! LOL. Sex is a beautiful communication between man and woman. I prefer to be married but that's my own personal viewpoint on the subject. Good marital relationships require good and frequent sex. It's how man shows his love to his wife. It's how she responds to this language of love. Sheesh! I think some folks need to get a checkup. I'm not saying one should be dying to have sex every minute, but being in a relationship and lacking desire for sex is an indicator of a larger relational problem...or physical. Sex is a good thing. Couples need to explore each other and SHARE...not take...maybe that's the problem with 1 partner taking and not pleasing the other. Dunno...

 

[GoingNatural]

^^^ We do it because this is not an 18+ board and any direct conversation about "sex" can get a thread locked.

thanks

 

[GV-NA-GI-TLV-GE-I]

^^^ We do it because this is not an 18+ board and any direct conversation about "sex" can get a thread locked.

thanks

Depends upon the 4-letter words used. I've seen many threads concerning sex. There's one in the christian forum right now and there's absolutely no euphemism for the term "sex." The problem was that people were getting very explicit in their descriptions on the sex act. Maybe they recently changed their rules?

 

[GoingNatural]

Well I'm sure OP wanted this to be a fun thread, and I have seen sex threads go wrong and get blocked because people start going too far and it's not fun and cute anymore. You've been around on the boards so I'm sure this isn't a surprise..so you know if people really want to talk about sex they will risk the thread going awry..but from the way this thread was moving it seemed fun and risque not a blunt convo about sex.

And I don't go into the christian forum so i cannot speak on those observations.

 

[GV-NA-GI-TLV-GE-I]

Well I'm sure OP wanted this to be a fun thread, and I have seen sex threads go wrong and get blocked because people start going too far and it's not fun and cute anymore. You've been around on the boards so I'm sure this isn't a surprise..so you know if people really want to talk about sex they will risk the thread going awry..but from the way this thread was moving it seemed fun and risque not a blunt convo about sex.

And I don't go into the christian forum so i cannot speak on those observations.

Was moving? Did I change that? I don't think so. I'm kewl with the conversation...no problems. But it does seem that Black women have a certain amount of frigidity ... I'm questioning that. And I was wondering if they changed the rules about mentioning the word directly ...as to why they can't say "sex" in this thread. In other words, saying "coloring" is direction not to get risque in a thread? Before I'm misunderstood, my purpose is not to get risque.

 

[aribell]

Depends upon the 4-letter words used. I've seen many threads concerning sex. There's one in the christian forum right now and there's absolutely no euphemism for the term "sex." The problem was that people were getting very explicit in their descriptions on the sex act. Maybe they recently changed their rules?

Parts of that thread had me like, , am I old enough to be reading this?
That is interesting though. The coloring euphemism is never used there.


The women that I've met who seem to have problems with coloring have generally had something else going on, in attitude or experience or perception--it was about something else and not really the activity itself.

 

[Naturelle]

MMMMkay....

I'm gonna be the odd woman out and announce I ABSOLUTLEY LOVE IT!!!! Maybe more than some men...more than my SO even

I want it everyday...rough, slow, sweet etc pick one...doesn't have to be the full fleged thing could be the other added stuff too...hey switch it up however which way...Of course when you're in a relationship and in love with your SO/Husband emotions enhance the physical

But even outside my relationship, I love everything about it...it wasn't necessary to have all the time before my relationship (can't take those risks these days) but where there is a will there are always ways....

ETA: sorry we can't talk about sex or mention the word? not trying to be a rebel but I thought this was an open forum....?

 

[pinkchocolatedaisy]

that's what I wanna know too

MMMMkay....

ETA: sorry we can't talk about sex or mention the word? not trying to be a rebel but I thought this was an open forum....?[/quote]