BlackMasterPiece
Well-Known Member
I keep reading threads about how violated people feel when people touch their hair......I really don't mind. Stranger's walk up to me and tell me how pretty my hair is, I guess instinctively their hands want to touch my hair and I'm usually like cool! Free massage! When I was working at my firm over the summer my co-workers especially my white ones would routinely come up from behind me and start playing in my hair saying omg! I WISH my hair could do that! How'd you do this! It's sooooo pretty etc all while playing in my hair....I was just like oh this is what I did and we had small talk people play in my hair all the time I'm cool with it, alot of times I just enjoy it. Is anyone else cool with it too?
The only thing that does kinda irk me is when my hair is pressed and flat ironed and I've done nice curls in it and people sit there and rake their hand thru my curl or disturb it too much, at that point I just very subtly fix the curl and run my hand thru it fixing it right after and they catch the hint without feeling insulted I've always been very sociable and always more then glad to talk hair so maybe thats why?
Also I've noticed alot of people have a bigger problem when people touch their scalp, that's never happened to me because to reach my scalp with the size of my fro you'd have to have stretch armstrongs arms hell I can hardly get to my scalp some days!
But anywhoo......I'm cool with ppl touching my hair overall....anyone else the same way?
The only thing that does kinda irk me is when my hair is pressed and flat ironed and I've done nice curls in it and people sit there and rake their hand thru my curl or disturb it too much, at that point I just very subtly fix the curl and run my hand thru it fixing it right after and they catch the hint without feeling insulted I've always been very sociable and always more then glad to talk hair so maybe thats why?
Also I've noticed alot of people have a bigger problem when people touch their scalp, that's never happened to me because to reach my scalp with the size of my fro you'd have to have stretch armstrongs arms hell I can hardly get to my scalp some days!
But anywhoo......I'm cool with ppl touching my hair overall....anyone else the same way?