It's not so much that it looks crazy, but the cultures are so different
And their culture is not exactly welcoming to marrying outsiders
Sometimes they get crap from marrying somebody from a different caste in the same country, let alone somebody from a completely different culture
As soon as my ex stepped into India, he and his fiancee tried to check into a hotel. They would not let him, because they said he was of the wrong social class. He spent 4 months over there trying to win over her family, and it was not pretty from what I heard.
I noticed that he started trying to contact me the summer of 2008. He sent me a postcard from India. At the time, I thought he was having a ball over there with her family and trying to rub it in my face. But now that I think about it, if he was having such a good time, why would he even be concerned about his first girlfriend?
Since then, he had been contacting me and asking to see me, etc, especially after Michael Jackson died. That was his opening. I received a Christmas card from him, and then in January he called to see what I was doing. I kept asking him why he was contacting me, because I just knew he was married by now. He said he wasn't. I kept telling him he was, and that I knew he was lying.
He finally came out and said, he doesn't talk about this with anyone, but since I insist that he is married he's going to tell me. He said he went to India for 4 months. He had a very respectable position there, but her family still did not accept him. They had these demands of him. He had to move to Bangalore in order to marry the girl. He had to live in this certain house near them. He had to do something else, that I can't remember. He said they refused to speak English around him, because they were talking about him in his presence. He would walk down the street, and people would spit at him.
I would loooooove to hear more of this story. It sounds heart-breaking, and of course the girl did what her family wanted and didn't marry him.