gabulldawg
Well-Known Member
Currently, all of my SO's friends are single. They like to hang out a lot, especially late at night. So, every time him and his friends hang out he ends up staying out until 2 or 3am! Today I put my foot down and flat out told him that if he wants to be with me he needs to stop staying out so late. His actions show me that he enjoys "playing single" and doesn't appreciate being in a relationship. I also told him that his friends can stay out and do a lot of things that he can't do because he has a woman at home waiting for him and they don't. He said he understood where I am coming from, but I guess he is having a hard time telling his friends that he has to make a sacrifice for our relationship! This is CONSTANTLY an issue for us and I'm truly sick of putting up with it. I really want him to feel where I am coming from because at this point is it really going to make or break our relationship. He's constantly talking about marriage, but I don't feel he is anywhere near ready if he thinks he's going to disrespect me by coming home all hours of the night with me waiting for him at home. Was I wrong for my ultimatum?