TokyoReina
New Member
Someone please, just tell me the truth! I've been dating this guy a few months now. Every now and then we go out to dinner or a movie, but most times we either meet at my place and or his and order in, watch a movie, blah blah.
So this week comes. I assume we'll be going out for Valentine's day. He hasn't said anything about it. I ask him at the beginning of the week if what he's planning for Friday. He looks at me like erplexed and says "Valentine's day is for people in love. I don't know." This sets of alarms in my head. My intuition tells me that if I'm being ignored on V-day he either A. Has someone else he plans on spending with or B.We're not on the same page as far as where this relationship is going and what kind of relationship it is.
So I tell him that if he plans on putting me down on Valentine's day, we're through and I don't want anything else to do with him. I'm already hurt that I'd already bought him a card and whatnot and he's not considered me at all. What say you? Am I overreacting or am I being played for a fool?
So this week comes. I assume we'll be going out for Valentine's day. He hasn't said anything about it. I ask him at the beginning of the week if what he's planning for Friday. He looks at me like erplexed and says "Valentine's day is for people in love. I don't know." This sets of alarms in my head. My intuition tells me that if I'm being ignored on V-day he either A. Has someone else he plans on spending with or B.We're not on the same page as far as where this relationship is going and what kind of relationship it is.
So I tell him that if he plans on putting me down on Valentine's day, we're through and I don't want anything else to do with him. I'm already hurt that I'd already bought him a card and whatnot and he's not considered me at all. What say you? Am I overreacting or am I being played for a fool?