kimpaur
Well-Known Member
Are y’all reading the same thing I’m reading because this is super duper weird and I’m not understanding these “oh he’s just bad at gifts!” replies
This isn’t bad gift giving, this man literally stole someone else’s cards and never admitted it (aka lied). Lying ain’t never ever ever okay. You probably haven’t dated a liar before, but I have and they aren’t worth the trouble
You can’t really call this relationship unproblematic when a man is lying to you..
Did he even apologize? (If no? Also a red flag)
You also mentioned he ordered your gift super late for Christmas...also red flag and a sign he might be incredibly bad with money
I know you like this man and will continue to date him, but I seriously suggest you look at him and your relationship a bit more objectively
And No, you’re not a diva; learning to trust your inner “bs-detector” is a must
And Yes, return that lingerie, ASAP
This isn’t bad gift giving, this man literally stole someone else’s cards and never admitted it (aka lied). Lying ain’t never ever ever okay. You probably haven’t dated a liar before, but I have and they aren’t worth the trouble
You can’t really call this relationship unproblematic when a man is lying to you..
Did he even apologize? (If no? Also a red flag)
You also mentioned he ordered your gift super late for Christmas...also red flag and a sign he might be incredibly bad with money
I know you like this man and will continue to date him, but I seriously suggest you look at him and your relationship a bit more objectively
And No, you’re not a diva; learning to trust your inner “bs-detector” is a must
And Yes, return that lingerie, ASAP