LovinLea
Well-Known Member
I am very non-judgmental...to a fault, so its hard for me to try to give advice about something like this. My good friend has a boyfriend who has a good deal more experience than her. She is very religious and conservative. (I am too IRL) She is saying that he really didn't tell her these things about himself when they first met (didnt want to scare her) but now feels more comfortable.
She says she doesn't tell me everything because she doesnt want me to judge him (I agree. A relationship is between two people). But they did some questionnaire and some answers bothered her:
1. He has had sex with someone without even knowing her name.
2. He has been the "other man".
3. He has lied to say "I love you" to a lot of women.
4. He would have sex with a prostitute if he didnt have to pay.
She is starting to feel like he is a garden tool/not respect him. Her question is basically is she judging him too harshly. Then she says she doesnt care and she trusts him.
ETA: Been together a year and a 1/2
She says she doesn't tell me everything because she doesnt want me to judge him (I agree. A relationship is between two people). But they did some questionnaire and some answers bothered her:
1. He has had sex with someone without even knowing her name.
2. He has been the "other man".
3. He has lied to say "I love you" to a lot of women.
4. He would have sex with a prostitute if he didnt have to pay.
She is starting to feel like he is a garden tool/not respect him. Her question is basically is she judging him too harshly. Then she says she doesnt care and she trusts him.
ETA: Been together a year and a 1/2