Divine.
Well-Known Member
So I have been dealing with a guy on and off for about 6 months. I officially cut it off a month ago because the relationship was not progressing. However the other day, he randomly popped back in.
We got into our first full blown argument because he texted me late at night (booty call hours) after I asked him respectfully not to. Although we never took that next step (read: sex), I still wasn't comfortable with him texting me at those hours. Plus he does that frequently. He ALWAYS texts me in the middle of the night while I'm sleep. Because of that, I literally haven't had a conversation with him in two months.
So back to the argument. I see the text when I wake up and want to flip. First because of of the late night text, and also because he went back to doing something I had asked not to do. I shot him a text at work saying that if he couldn't speak to me during the day, don't speak to me at all. To which he responds, Why are you so bitter? I tell him my issue, just saying that those texts make me feel like a booty call. Then he gets mad! He's not in town right now so it became clear to me that I guess he really did want to talk.
He's giving me the silent treatment right now. I'm irritated because he totally dismissed my feelings and turned this situation on me. I hate confrontation so this situation really bothers me. Is there any rectifying this? It's not even so much the relationship I'm trying to salvage, I just want to resolve the issue so I don't stay mad. Was I wrong for feeling the way I did?
I just need some encouragement. I was so happy during the time I had away from him. Then the minute he comes back into my life he flips it upside down with one text * sigh*
We got into our first full blown argument because he texted me late at night (booty call hours) after I asked him respectfully not to. Although we never took that next step (read: sex), I still wasn't comfortable with him texting me at those hours. Plus he does that frequently. He ALWAYS texts me in the middle of the night while I'm sleep. Because of that, I literally haven't had a conversation with him in two months.
So back to the argument. I see the text when I wake up and want to flip. First because of of the late night text, and also because he went back to doing something I had asked not to do. I shot him a text at work saying that if he couldn't speak to me during the day, don't speak to me at all. To which he responds, Why are you so bitter? I tell him my issue, just saying that those texts make me feel like a booty call. Then he gets mad! He's not in town right now so it became clear to me that I guess he really did want to talk.
He's giving me the silent treatment right now. I'm irritated because he totally dismissed my feelings and turned this situation on me. I hate confrontation so this situation really bothers me. Is there any rectifying this? It's not even so much the relationship I'm trying to salvage, I just want to resolve the issue so I don't stay mad. Was I wrong for feeling the way I did?
I just need some encouragement. I was so happy during the time I had away from him. Then the minute he comes back into my life he flips it upside down with one text * sigh*