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[IslandMummy]

Might be porn. My ex was an addict (imo at least) and it happened to him sometimes.

Also, I lurk a male forum and they have a nofap2018 challenge because so many of them aren't able to have good sex with women due to all the porn and masturbation.

 

[healthyhair2]

Yeah...dealbreaker. You sure he's not in the closet?

 

[intellectualuva]

Yeah...dealbreaker. You sure he's not in the closet?

I thought this or he can't keep it up if he's wearing a condom. Not that this is a good excuse to not protect yourself, but some of these men aren't asked to use condoms often and as such the peen gets the sadz at the thought. Lol.

 

[healthyhair2]

I thought this or he can't keep it up if he's wearing a condom. Not that this is a good excuse to not protect yourself, but some of these men aren't asked to use condoms often and as such the peen gets the sadz at the thought. Lol.

Woooo chile, his peen will have to cry a river in that condom!!!! Until the test results come back then. Idk sounds suspect to me. You deserve satisfaction. This is a sign I think to go your own way. These things usually don't get better.

 

[hopeful]

Woooo chile, his peen will have to cry a river in that condom!!!! Until the test results come back then. Idk sounds suspect to me. You deserve satisfaction. This is a sign I think to go your own way. These things usually don't get better.

I agree re it being a sign. Rarely does a problem exist in isolation. In other words a situation like this probably comes with a host of other concerns such as excessive pornography use, lack of true intimacy, etc. The list goes on.

 

[007PMP]

NO DEAL!!!!

Sex is in the top 2 reasons why couples can’t make it

If it don’t stick, you must quit.

And make is arse get a panel!!! Schat!!!

 

[intellectualuva]

Woooo chile, his peen will have to cry a river in that condom!!!! Until the test results come back then. Idk sounds suspect to me. You deserve satisfaction. This is a sign I think to go your own way. These things usually don't get better.

Right. Lol. And in this day and age, those initial test results aren't enough.

I would be out. I wasted some time of my life not being sexually satisfied. Never again. At least not when it sucks from the beginning.......unless that paper maaaadddddd long.

 

[007PMP]

Right. Lol. And in this day and age, those initial test results aren't enough.

I would be out. I wasted some time of my life not being sexually satisfied. Never again. At least not when it sucks from the beginning.......unless that paper maaaadddddd long.

Yeah you can’t 2-step to Jill Scott & Anthony Hamilton “So In Love” when the paynus ain’t setting you free.

It’s more like “boy go sit down”

 

[healthyhair2]

NO DEAL!!!!

Sex is in the top 2 reasons why couples can’t make it

If it don’t stick, you must quit.

And make is arse get a panel!!! Schat!!!

You had me rolling in the aisle on this one!!!

Yes...sex or lack thereof and money issues will ruin a relationship.

 

[007PMP]

You had me rolling in the aisle on this one!!!

I’m the president of “get you a man with some good-all-night-long CLEAN D”.

You should see my before and after

hashtag don’t date him

 

[healthyhair2]

Right. Lol. And in this day and age, those initial test results aren't enough.

I would be out. I wasted some time of my life not being sexually satisfied. Never again. At least not when it sucks from the beginning.......unless that paper maaaadddddd long.

Omgee even the long paper wouldn't let me tolerate that! No.No.No

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

I have a friend like this. He's a 31 year old virgin. The last woman he had action with cut it off for this reason.

Wait....what? So he tried to lose his virginity but couldn't keep it up? I read it like she cut off his peen lol.

 

[oneastrocurlie]

Wait....what? So he tried to lose his virginity but couldn't keep it up? I read it like she cut off his peen lol.

ahahahahahahaha

 

[Southernbella.]

It gets even better. Apparently it's not just that one board. It's a whole movement, with its own hashtag and YouTube videos

 

[IslandMummy]

It gets even better. Apparently it's not just that one board. It's a whole movement, with its own hashtag and YouTube videos

I just laughed for 7 minutes looking at my search results on YouTube. NoFap & Zen took me out. The thinning hair cure

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

I just laughed for 7 minutes looking at my search results on YouTube. NoFap & Zen took me out. The thinning hair cure

I just had to see for myself. These grown Negroes talking about "it works!" like it's the debt free call on Dave Ramsey. I can't.

 

[hopeful]

It gets even better. Apparently it's not just that one board. It's a whole movement, with its own hashtag and YouTube videos

Found out they couldn’t replace real live women and relationships with porn huh? I’m glad people have these resources to recover though.

 

[intellectualuva]

Found out they couldn’t replace real live women and relationships with porn huh? I’m glad people have these resources to recover though.

Yeah, but this makes them hate women even more. So many of them "involuntary celibate" dudes are so angry.

 

[WhoIAm]

This logo

 

[FlowerHair]

This has happened sometimes when the man is too excited, BUT it passes as soon as they start getting comfortable. If he can't perform at all, I would try to start looking for someone else...sad, but true. Sex is so important.

 

[FlowerHair]

Girl that aint NEVER stopped a dude from standing to attention and then doing the dance. D always comes through for new P. He really may have some type of medical issue.

Yep! Most men dream about having multiple women. A man who is able to have sex can have sex with several women in the same day even. I don't think "dancing" with someone else is the problem.

I'm upset for you OP!

 

[momi]

Yep by 3 years, late 20s.

I slipped into a Reddit with a group of guys that were discussing this - they blame it on early and excessive 'self love'. They were young too.

 

[momi]

Might be porn. My ex was an addict (imo at least) and it happened to him sometimes.

Also, I lurk a male forum and they have a nofap2018 challenge because so many of them aren't able to have good sex with women due to all the porn and masturbation.

Clearly I didn't see your post... we must have been lurking in the same forum.

 

[Naveah2050]

Im sorry but it sounds like he's is "dancing" with someone else

How sway how? That’s probably last thing she should be worried about... not to be shady or anything...

 

[Chipmunk]

You should see if he is willing to take supplements. This has happened to me twice before. Both guys had not had sex in 2 or more years.

Guy#1 - He said he was just nervous, but I was not certain so I purchased maca supplements which he drank daily for a week. The next time we tried, he was able to maintain an erection for a long time. We did not have any problems after that, but he may have continued taking the maca in smaller dosages, not sure.

Guy #2 - He couldn't admit that there was something wrong with his penis and wasn't really willing to take supplements. He was taking medicine for high blood pressure which I know effects libido. I tried to have a relationship with him that was not centered around sex, but after five months I had enough. He did let me make him a maca smoothie once and I noticed he held an erection for longer and seemed more excited.

 

[PJaye]

I'm the odd voice of dissent in that it wouldn't be a deal breaker for me.

 

[movingforward13]

This forum has been so slow lately. I’m thankful for this thread.

Bitcoin

 

[movingforward13]

Im sorry but it sounds like he's is "dancing" with someone else

I agree. Some men who dance with others feel guilty for what they are doing and makes it hard to perform.

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

You should see if he is willing to take supplements. This has happened to me twice before. Both guys had not had sex in 2 or more years.

Guy#1 - He said he was just nervous, but I was not certain so I purchased maca supplements which he drank daily for a week. The next time we tried, he was able to maintain an erection for a long time. We did not have any problems after that, but he may have continued taking the maca in smaller dosages, not sure.

Guy #2 - He couldn't admit that there was something wrong with his penis and wasn't really willing to take supplements. He was taking medicine for high blood pressure which I know effects libido. I tried to have a relationship with him that was not centered around sex, but after five months I had enough. He did let me make him a maca smoothie once and I noticed he held an erection for longer and seemed more excited.

Tsk tsk, guy #2 ..... A hard head makes a soft....penis

 

[Fine 4s]

I dated a guy some years ago who had this issue. He made it seem like it was me and of course being who I was, I internalized it and believed it. Mind you, we had been on and off since I was in college and it wasn't a problem then. He drank a LOT and was overweight the last go around so I believe this had something to do with it in HIS case. I also know of another person who married a man with this issue and two years later she decided to leave. She had already cheated on him because of it...also he drank a lot.