Ipanema
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Ever?!?!?
Not for growth. I've been growing and taking care of my hair for so long. It's time to enjoy the fruits of my labor. I want to grow it without protective styles.
Ever?!?!?
I've heard that this can happen. How did your texture change?
Hi. I was a member here last year but I won't mention my old name since I doubt anyone remembers me... lol. This is also a new account. Anyways, I'm 4B with a little 4a and 4c in the back. I've been growing out my hair from a baldy for a little over a year now (cut it for the new year in 2016). I'm going to try to grow out my hair using a few simple rules: only finger detangle shrunken hair, use combs only when my hair is stretched, and practice complete simplicity. Oh, and once my hair reaches shoulder length, always keep my hair stretched (save for special occasions).
Lately, I've been extremely interested in two things: shampoo bars and mud washes. I want hair that is completely set straight out of the shower and these two seem to be my best leads. I got hooked on the idea of a one step regimen when I tried oil rinsing (my first beloved), which was promising but had its issues. Mainly, olive oil (which slows down cell renewal when used on skin, surprisingly) is my scalp's enemy. I hope the hair that thinned in the back while using it fills back in. My shedding was insane.
After careful consideration of what I want: a regularly refreshed scalp, grease-free hair and moisture that cannot be wiped off my hair by a pillow case (I feel like most people's kinky hair is still truly "rough" underneath all their product, hence why they have to reapply moisturizer everyday. I hate that a cotton hat can make my hair feel like wire because it soaks up the moisturizer. This shouldn't be), I set out for a solution. I asked myself, why is our hair "rough" like that? Why is kinky hair naturally dry?
A mean, I know straighter hair is said to be softer due to more sebum availability, but think about it. Even without those scalp oils present after shampooing, their hair has this natural cool, smooth and soft feeling naturally. Why not kinky hair? I'm out on a hunt for what could make my hair naturally soft also. What vitamin or product do I have to use to make my hair moisturized and soft straight out of the shower? This is my single question. I already know how to retain length - just don't break my hairs. Lol. But gaining true softness is still a mystery. I refuse to believe that the sebum which straighter haired people never let coat their hair from root to tip in this day and age anyway is what makes their hair so soft.
After researching, I think mud washing or using glycerin soap (the latter based on the personal experience that glycerin is the strongest moisturizer for me) on my hair is what I will first trial in my pursuit for true softness. I ordered some of the latter today and I'm excited to try it. My goal is simple: make my hair healthy and soft - on its own accord. Also, I want the much desired length. Lol. We shall see... (sorry for the length. I felt like this was the right place to put this.)
It has become coarser and it shrinks up a whole lot more too. This may be due to a number of reasons:
* I didn't DC with heat for about three years, only started again now.
* I take prescription drugs for my mental illness
* I entered my thirties 2.5 years ago
Any more information you may have about it, will be greatly appreciated. TIA.
Nice post, and welcome to the thread!
I can't help with achieving softness, but I will say that I have wondered why sebum makes so much difference when many of us coat our hair in enough oil to replace it in my opinion, lol. My head stay oily yet still dry.
I have a lot of other musings, but I won't bother now, lol.
Lately, I've been extremely interested in two things: shampoo bars and mud washes. I want hair that is completely set straight out of the shower and these two seem to be my best leads. I got hooked on the idea of a one step regimen when I tried oil rinsing (my first beloved), which was promising but had its issues. Mainly, olive oil (which slows down cell renewal when used on skin, surprisingly) is my scalp's enemy. I hope the hair that thinned in the back while using it fills back in. My shedding was insane.
After careful consideration of what I want: a regularly refreshed scalp, grease-free hair and moisture that cannot be wiped off my hair by a pillow case (I feel like most people's kinky hair is still truly "rough" underneath all their product, hence why they have to reapply moisturizer everyday. I hate that a cotton hat can make my hair feel like wire because it soaks up the moisturizer. This shouldn't be), I set out for a solution. I asked myself, why is our hair "rough" like that? Why is kinky hair naturally dry?
A mean, I know straighter hair is said to be softer due to more sebum availability, but think about it. Even without those scalp oils present after shampooing, their hair has this natural cool, smooth and soft feeling naturally. Why not kinky hair? I'm out on a hunt for what could make my hair naturally soft also. What vitamin or product do I have to use to make my hair moisturized and soft straight out of the shower? This is my single question. I already know how to retain length - just don't break my hairs. Lol. But gaining true softness is still a mystery. I refuse to believe that the sebum which straighter haired people never let coat their hair from root to tip in this day and age anyway is what makes their hair so soft.
Not for growth. I've been growing and taking care of my hair for so long. It's time to enjoy the fruits of my labor. I want to grow it without protective styles.
@snoop
Thanks for the feedback! I've heard similar reasoning before (believe me, I've considered many factors) but I have some reasons to believe differently. There are a great many low porosity kinky haired naturals (I've even seen results from places like Komaza proving that low porosity is possible for kinky haired gals on a microscopic level) yet despite their cuticles being glued down to the max, they tend to have very dry hair as well. Some would say that's because moisture can't get in, but how come low porosity women of other hair types don't need to use heat caps and a bunch of snake oil to "get moisture in" to their hair? It's already soft and smooth, that's why. I don't believe the roughness has to do purely with porosity at the root of things, though I know that can affect how good any hair type *holds* onto moisture. I have the absolute lowest porosity hair and my hair used to feel rougher than some wool fried with actual bleach and left out in the sun for years. (It still does sometimes... lol) But I'm kind of over everyone saying kinky hair is high po when I think most of us have low-medium po hair. High po is more as a result of chemical damage. I think most people who say they are high po are just medium po with dry hair.
I heard sebum contains part water and part cholesterol, plus some other stuff I can't recall. So yeah it's different from other vegetable oils - it's more tailored for hair. I might add some lanolin to my glycerin soap for just this reason. It's supposedly very similar to sebum, just like jojoba oil.
I know that kinky hair will never feel just like type 1 or 2 hair because part of the texture difference is the actual feeling of the kinks (my goal is not for my hair to feel like theirs, but to simply feel good and healthy on its own. I guess my first post didn't explain very well). I do believe our hair can feel soft and smooth also, but obviously it will always be more coarse and I looove that about it. But I've felt very soft and strong feeling kinky hair before, and that's what I'm going for.
Again sorry for the looooong post.
I'm at neck length now -- started over.
Hoping to make APL 2018.
I'll have to keep doing this before I know if it's going to work for me, but I'm putting my focus on having a simple yet effective regimen, so I really hope it does. I know some people wash in twists. They're looser and easier to wash, so when my hair gets longer I may switch to twists, but I can see having to redo them to stretch, whereas I only have to put these braids in once throughout the entire wash process.
After shampooing, I did a final rinse with warmed white vinegar, and my hair felt so soft. I didn't use conditioner. I think I might do this once per month to clarify.
I was also thinking about the age of my hair. My ends are probably 3 or 4 years old. Back then, I was so busy, and had no interest in hair care. I'd shampoo, let it air-dry in yarn braids, and then go on with my day. My diet wasn't so great, either.
Now I'm thinking that if you want healthy ends in the future, you have to think about the quality of your hair today. The bulk of your hair right now will be the ends 3 or 4 years from now. This is probably common knowledge, but I was just thinking about it after a shampoo.
On that note, be careful cause I heard vinegar can degrade the hair's keratin over time and even cause hair to lighten as well. Especially when not diluted very much and left on the hair.
Does anyone use oil sheen spray? How does it affect your hair?
I tried some, and it made my hair puffy. I had to check the ingredient list to see if there was water in it. I do like that it makes my hair smell nice. Sometimes coconut oil can go rancid. It also switches from liquid to solid frequently. I went out in cold weather one night, and my hair froze into a stiff, solid mass because of the coconut oil.
Your hair looks really nice and those curls.Although I trimmed frequently enough last year (detailed in the 2017 twists, bun, braid challenge) and wore twists all the damn time, my ends felt rough, maybe it was from the color from Nov2015. I got a professional trim to have a more precise idea where I stand so I can excel the growth with my 4 pattern. About 2 inched was cut. I’ll go again in May then Sep or Dec.
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How was Electic Vibez? I love her IG!Although I trimmed frequently enough last year (detailed in the 2017 twists, bun, braid challenge) and wore twists all the damn time, my ends felt rough, maybe it was from the color from Nov2015. I got a professional trim to have a more precise idea where I stand so I can excel the growth with my 4 pattern. About 2 inched was cut. I’ll go again in May then Sep or Dec.
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