29, never orgasmed with a man- is there something wrong?

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The only way to know what a man should do to please you is to make sure you know how to please yourself first :yep:

Try things out...different angles and toys.....then instruct your man on what works for you. The most important thing to do is relax and have fun! If you're all anxious about the big O, most likely it's not going to happen.
 
Mrs. Verde said:
First time 15, we were dry humpin :look: By myself :look::grin: around 20.
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Hump hump hump! :look: :yep:

Some women will not experience the big O with a man, so you have to do it yourself. I learned at a early age how to please my self... sorry mister teddy bear. :lachen:
 
MrsJaiDiva said:
:yep::yep::yep:

And that's why I'm multi-orgasmic now!:drunk:
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I know what position I like and what stimulates me but I need to find a man patient and attentive enough to do it. *le sigh* Also, I have a very poor body image and so far I've only ever had one man who I felt totally comfortable with. I think it will boil down to me finding the right man.
 
I think YouTube has some videos. And YES location, location, location! Also, there are some facebook like sites that have vids dedicated to this OP. Google is YOUR FRIEND! :D
 
16 Oral sex
22 Penetration
29 Female "E"
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Those were with my now xhusband. Honestly, he really had to work for those first few Os. I was too self conscious and embarrassed, being that horribly young age.

I've found that I really can only "O" when I have a close connection or in love. I hate that my body is a romantic. Ugh!
 
I was 20 yrs. It was, WOW. I married him :giggle:

Seriously though the majority of women can only achieve (or I should say have ever only achieved) clitoral orgasms.
 
mallysmommy said:
trust....:look: i think i'm broken lol
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You are not broken. Anatomically speaking, it is more difficult for a woman to achieve orgasm during intercourse. Around 70% (give or take) don't achieve orgasm on intercourse alone in certain positions.
There are many many intercourse positions you can try that place your lady bits (pardon the language, I usually use anatomically correct names but some ppl are squeamish) in a better position to achieve orgasm during intercourse. Try Google searching tantric sex, karma sutra, sex positions, even try Amazon or an actual sex store for books.
Also, concentration and knowing how you body responds is super important.
 
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shesheshe22 said:
I know what position I like and what stimulates me but I need to find a man patient and attentive enough to do it. *le sigh* Also, I have a very poor body image and so far I've only ever had one man who I felt totally comfortable with. I think it will boil down to me finding the right man.
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Yes, yes, yes! Sex is not only physical and emotional, there's a mental factor as well. If you're second guessing how you look, or if you're putting it on him like a champ you're not free to really enjoy yourself.
 
I wonder what all of the LHCF households will be like to tonight when y'all get home? There will be no posters posting, LOL!
 
DarkJoy said:
16 Oral sex
22 Penetration
29 Female "E"
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Those were with my now xhusband. Honestly, he really had to work for those first few Os. I was too self conscious and embarrassed, being that horribly young age.

I've found that I really can only "O" when I have a close connection or in love. I hate that my body is a romantic. Ugh!
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I'm the same. It really does matter about how connected you are with a person. They say that sex is 90% mental and 10% physical. This is why sometimes if you truly are in love with someone, the bare though of being intimate with them can bring you to orgasm!
 
shesheshe22 said:
I know what position I like and what stimulates me but I need to find a man patient and attentive enough to do it. *le sigh* Also, I have a very poor body image and so far I've only ever had one man who I felt totally comfortable with. I think it will boil down to me finding the right man.
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While finding a quality man is important....Because I know myself so well, and because I love myself....it doesn't matter the position or the man (with a few exceptions*), I will always get mine. :yep: You have to know yourself, and love yourself!

*except for two guys who were so small...:fistshake::swearing: This ride has a height requirement now...She don't accept anything but the best now. I have been known to destroy the self esteem of the weak. :lachen:
 
Another thing people sometimes glaze over is foreplay, make sure you're REALLY worked up. The more I'm panting for it the faster the "O".
 
Trini_Chutney said:
I was 20 yrs. It was, WOW. I married him :giggle:

Seriously though the majority of women can only achieve (or I should say have ever only achieved) clitoral orgasms.
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So far, that's me. SO has tried getting me good and aroused and using his finger to stimulate my G-spot. This one time, I came SOOOOOO close but couldn't get there. It's frustrating but it's nice I have an SO who's willing to please me in the other ways that get me "there".
 
It's like riding a bike. Pun intended. The more you try, the easier it will be until you finally get it. You don't need a man. You can get an O by yourself. :)
 
I Feel really bad about situations like this, I had one my first time at age 16 and I’m easy to climax...never require oral. I think its all in the sensitivity of your clitoris, basic anatomy. MEN have long phallus, we have a miniscule fleshy, "1 that swells and sensitivity varies from woman to woman. THIS is why woman are SO in love with oral sex..DIRECT WET WARM clitoral stimulation. I orgasm in under 5 minutes so I cannot relate...sigh. This is also ANOTHER reason I hold a little animosity from men having the nerve to require SO much…hit it from the back, give me a sloppy BJ, let me finish in your mouth, blah blah and that don’t know women are struggling to get pleasure. Penis people drive me crazy lol I may not Id say 1 time of 20
 
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