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Let's Call A Truce Shall We? BTK vs Nappy vs Relaxer....

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Lucky's Mom

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OK....
I know.... the :mob: is coming...
But here is the deal...............

On LHCF - Hair should not be a political Foot Ball...
We really are not here for that.

We are here for support.... if you have NO hair - you shaved your head you are starting over - or you have massive loads of wonderful hair....


What ever you do - fine....

Can we stop the violence???? Can we call an e-truce????

If you have BEAUTIFUL healthy Hair - and you want that for others - - can we just do that???? Help when we can help, etc????

In the words of Rodney King...............Can we all get along?

I am shaking my head at the recent crazyness!!!!! :nono:

I will start:
My Name is Lucky's mom:
I am natural - and that is OK - I limit my use of Chemicals, and I hate it when people make fun of that........ Please don't crucify me for it!!!!! I often Salivate at pics of straight hair.:lick:


That is all....................

Thanks.........Who is with me????
:yep:
 
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Thank you

My name is Denise. On the boards I'm Sheba1. My hair has been natural for 14 years. I, too, often drool over pictures of straight hair... including yours, LM. :look::drunk:
 
LOL. Sam you keep calling it BTK. And I can't help but think about the BTK Killer...

Anyway, I agree.

My name is msa, I've been natural for over 23 years, and I love it and everything natural. And, I think everyone should do what makes them happy with their hair and call themselves whatever they want.
 
LOL. Sam you keep calling it BTK. And I can't help but think about the BTK Killer...

Anyway, I agree.

My name is msa, I've been natural for over 23 years, and I love it and everything natural. And, I think everyone should do what makes them happy with their hair and call themselves whatever they want.


OOPS!

:lachen: fraudian slip I guess!!!
BKT!
 
You can call yourself whatever you like. If you put some relaxer on and still wants to call yourself natural, natural you are. You are whatever you say you are. This is beginning to sound like the 4b debate.

(when I say you, I don't mean OP, specifically. I mean anyone)
 
You can call yourself whatever you like. If you put some relaxer on and still wants to call yourself natural, natural you are. You are whatever you say you are. This is beginning to sound like the 4b debate.

(when I say you, I don't mean OP, specifically. I mean anyone)


No debates.

This is:
What is your name, and what do you call yourself.

no debates.... just harmony.:yep:
 
Hi, my name is Lady Speedstick, even though I am neither royalty or a stick of deodorant. I recently did the big chop and play with my natural coils. A lot. Even thoug they are less then an inch long. I also slap on synthetic hair wigs & half wigs that are not always of a kinky texture. Some of the are straight, wavy, and curly. I feel like it's the best of both worlds.

ETA: OH! And I consider myself natural.
 
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I'll be the first Relaxee in here

My name is Poranges, I love hair of all types. I am relaxed. I love pink and I'm getting pink streaks when I reach my goal :)
 
Hello
My name is Maria. I go from curly to straight to curly to straight all the time. I'm still natural, have been nappy since 2007. I'm too broke to do a BKT. I'd rather spend it on Hairveda and shoes.
 
Hello,my name is Toy and i am into relaxers and I love natural and relaxed Hair does not matter to me.
 
Hello,
My name is N&W and I'm on vacation.:look:

Oh, sorry....umm, I am natural and looking to texlax soon. I know people would talk about me, but...it doesn't matter because I do what I want with my hair when I want to.

I like when people do whatever they want to their hair, because its theirs.

Relaxed hair -nice
BKT'd hair -very nice
Colored hair-beautiful
Natural hair - nice too.

It's all good!!!:grin:
 
Hello,
My name is N&W and I'm on vacation.:look:

Oh, sorry....umm, I am natural and looking to texlax soon. I know people would talk about me, but...it doesn't matter because I do what I want with my hair when I want to.

I like when people do whatever they want to their hair, because its theirs.

Relaxed hair -nice
BKT'd hair -very nice
Colored hair-beautiful
Natural hair - nice too.

It's all good!!!:grin:

Sorry to go off topic, but why do you want to Texlax? I thought you were kidding in your earlier post. :perplexed
 
Sorry to go off topic, but why do you want to Texlax? I thought you were kidding in your earlier post. :perplexed
No, I'm not kidding. I know that my hair would work the way I want it too when I do.

I'm a 3b/3c natural and its not all that....not to rain on anyone's parade, but that's just my opinion.
 
No, I'm not kidding. I know that my hair would work the way I want it too when I do.

I'm a 3b/3c natural and its not all that....not to rain on anyone's parade, but that's just my opinion.

I'm 3b/3c as well and I know its not all roses

I wish you luck with whatever you decide to do
 
I didn't realize that these "wars" were so serious. I mean, dang y'all, it's just hair! :yep:

ANYWHOOSIES...

My name is LivingDol1. I am relaxed and have been for most of my life. I love and am amazed by all hair types. I've learned a wealth of information on this board. It is my happy place. :headspin:
 
I am texlaxed after a year of being natural but not before a hasty theft of my husband's clippers, or before a succession of big chops, or before my beautiful APL length relaxed hair started breaking because I treated my hair worse than my feet (it was growing right?, of course I can self-relax....I can do anything I set my mind to!)

Now thanks to you ladies I have a new stylist that keeps me incognito and I can keep the hair police away: "put the applicator brush down ma'am!"

Now if I can just find a silking conditioner....its all good.
much luv to ya!
 
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I'll call my truce.....and say my peace......again....I like hair of all textures and of all lengths, I've been natural, texturized, and relaxed.....and right now I like being relaxed, I'm constantly educating myself on relaxed hair, and eventually I will go natural......but I'm living my life.....and I'm enjoying my hair.....I like all kinds of hair.....and I have no beef with anyone.....oh yea my name is ashley aka slantedeyezmiss2003.......
 
i like this "call youself whatever you want" movement.....
.......as long as we are clear about anything extra we do to our hair outside of shampoo and conditioner :) not for the sake for condemning, but rather for the sake of knowledge and the quest to achieve a similar head of hair :)
 
Hi, I'm ShiShiPooPoo. You can call me ShiShi or PooPoo...doesn't matter.

I am relaxed. I relax bone straight. I don't like puffiness of any kind when I am relaxed. I was natural for about 5 years and may go back if I feel like it. For right now, I enjoy being relaxed and I enjoyed being natural and I just enjoy hair.

If you have a weave-do ya thang
If you are braided-do ya thang
If you are bonelaxed-do ya thang
If you are texlaxed-do ya thang
If you are transitioning-do ya thang
If you are natural-do ya thang
If you are bald-headed-do ya thang
If you are locked-do ya thang
If you are wigged up-do ya thang
If you do the 27 piece thang-do ya thang
 
Hi, I'm ShiShiPooPoo. You can call me ShiShi or PooPoo...doesn't matter.

I am relaxed. I relax bone straight. I don't like puffiness of any kind when I am relaxed. I was natural for about 5 years and may go back if I feel like it. For right now, I enjoy being relaxed and I enjoyed being natural and I just enjoy hair.

If you have a weave-do ya thang
If you are braided-do ya thang
If you are bonelaxed-do ya thang
If you are texlaxed-do ya thang
If you are transitioning-do ya thang
If you are natural-do ya thang
If you are bald-headed-do ya thang
If you are locked-do ya thang
If you are wigged up-do ya thang
If you do the 27 piece thang-do ya thang
:clap::clap::clap::clap:
 
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