4a/b Natural Support and FAQ Thread (da Nappy Head Thread)

[ceedeelight]

My first Curly Fro

I did it!

After transistioning for 1 year I was able to wear my first natural wash-n-go curly fro.

I got so many compliments and my hubby loved it. Here is a picture.

 

[Ms_Twana]

Re: My first Curly Fro

I did it!

After transistioning for 1 year I was able to wear my first natural wash-n-go curly fro.

I got so many compliments and my hubby loved it. Here is a picture.

Congrats girlie!!!!!

 

[Kookie]

What are 4a/4b's using to slick their puffs back with?
Regular gels don't seem to work for me?

OR

Perhaps I'm just not applying the gels right????????
I usually don't use a lot of product--maybe that's my problem????

For those who USE gel to slick back their pony/puffs....how much do you use??? I'm clueless

Maybe if I tell you what I currently do--you can help me out from there:
I usually dab a lil bit of gel all around freshly co-washed hair and try to brush/hand smooth the gel onto my hair. I then tie my hair up for about 30 minutes to let it set.
HOWEVER
I take the scarf off--and I still have frizzy hair that won't lay down????
What am I doing wrong?

 

[ceedeelight]

What are 4a/4b's using to slick their puffs back with?
Regular gels don't seem to work for me?

OR

Perhaps I'm just not applying the gels right????????
I usually don't use a lot of product--maybe that's my problem????

For those who USE gel to slick back their pony/puffs....how much do you use??? I'm clueless

Maybe if I tell you what I currently do--you can help me out from there:
I usually dab a lil bit of gel all around freshly co-washed hair and try to brush/hand smooth the gel onto my hair. I then tie my hair up for about 30 minutes to let it set.
HOWEVER
I take the scarf off--and I still have frizzy hair that won't lay down????
What am I doing wrong?

Hi,

After I co-wash I use dark ampro gel and then I use bee's wax to make sure it stays down. I use a natural boar bristle brush to smooth it down. I might not have to use the gel, but I haven't tried it with just the bee's wax. But I do know that the gel alone does not work for me either.

Hope this helps.

 

[Ms_Twana]

What are 4a/4b's using to slick their puffs back with?
Regular gels don't seem to work for me?

OR

Perhaps I'm just not applying the gels right????????
I usually don't use a lot of product--maybe that's my problem????

For those who USE gel to slick back their pony/puffs....how much do you use??? I'm clueless

Maybe if I tell you what I currently do--you can help me out from there:
I usually dab a lil bit of gel all around freshly co-washed hair and try to brush/hand smooth the gel onto my hair. I then tie my hair up for about 30 minutes to let it set.
HOWEVER
I take the scarf off--and I still have frizzy hair that won't lay down????
What am I doing wrong?

I use the same technique as you. I use Fantasia IC gel. I also use American Crew Pomade. It slicks hair down really well and shines like crazy.

 

[Ms_Twana]

After I co-wash I use dark ampro gel.......

.............

 

[Radianthealth]

I used the Aveda Damage Remedy shampoo and conditioning treatment. I really liked how easy it was to comb my hair after rinsing. I think this is a great detangler. I am still waiting to see how my ends look at the end of the day to give my final verdict.

So far, I do think Aveda DR is a great product line for 4B hair

 

[ceedeelight]

Should I not use the dark ampro gel?

If so, I didn't know and why?

 

[brownsugarflyygirl]

YAY for nappy heads!!

I love love my 4a coils...I could serenade them...YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL.....TO MEEEEEEE!!!! CANT YOU SEEEEE!!!

LOL! Ummm...I think that my naps may be "trained"...because these days I just do a quick water rinse in the shower and use my Denman brush and my hair slicks back into a very neat/smooth ponytail. Sometimes I add a little oil for moisture sake....no pomades, greases, or gels needed

 

[sweetkita4]

I'm thinking about getting kinky twists for the first time ever. I was wondering what things I need to do to prepare my hair for the braider so no damage is done.

 

[ceedeelight]

.............

Okay,

I searched for info on the Ampro Gel and I have to say I've never had problems with dryness, buildup, or breakage. This was with being relaxed back in the day or as a natural now.

 

[Kookie]

Okay,

I searched for info on the Ampro Gel and I have to say I've never had problems with dryness, buildup, or breakage. This was with being relaxed back in the day or as a natural now.

Yeah.....I think it's been stated that that gel is "bad".....
Is it flaky too?


I don't know....
I might try to use more pomades or something heavy like that.....

So how much are you all putting in to slick it back?
I always THINK I'm using too much--when I'm probably not... erplexed
- I probably use a finger full on the side....a finger full in the middle....and a finger ful on the other side. I do this on WET hair and tie the hair down.
After 30 minutes--I still get frizz frizz and MORE frizz????

And other suggestions?

 

[nikkivale]

I know we're on a different subject, but i wanna ask...

question for the ladies who trim their hair while in twists! have you had any problem with hair being uneven when you straighten it? i have a blunt cut and i don't know what my results will be like if i trim it this way

 

[Snuckles]

I don't trim often but when I do, I trim while my hair is in twist. Being natural, I really don't worry about having uneven hair. I haven't straighten my hair in 7 years and I did it only then to please my mother for my wedding.

 

[Evolving78]

I have a question about headbands. Where can I get the pantyhose head bands and how long was your TWA before you started adding accessories? I think I may have an 1 1/2 inch or 2 inches, but I'm not sure if I will look right with headbands and stuff yet.

 

[Zeal]

THANKS NIKOS for this Did you Know?

 

[Enchantmt]

 

[Aussie]

ok im gettin sooooooooooooo tired of my hair being hard to comb after i wash it..... and blow drying is like playing in the olympics. I am seriously thinkin about gettin a relaxer. i really wanted to stay natural but its soooo heard when everyone has their own product and i dont want to become a PJ (need money for school). Are there any suggestions on how to turn natural NAPPY roots into lucious moisturizing curls? I need the name of products and the STEPS to get from a wash to the final stage. I am so desperate..... thanks to all

 

[Ms_Twana]

ok im gettin sooooooooooooo tired of my hair being hard to comb after i wash it..... and blow drying is like playing in the olympics. I am seriously thinkin about gettin a relaxer. i really wanted to stay natural but its soooo heard when everyone has their own product and i dont want to become a PJ (need money for school). Are there any suggestions on how to turn natural NAPPY roots into lucious moisturizing curls? I need the name of products and the STEPS to get from a wash to the final stage. I am so desperate..... thanks to all

Welcome girl. You have come to the right place. No need to worry about a relaxer if you don't want one. Start by ONLY combing your hair when it's drenched in conditioner. Then you can use the search feature to find what other naturals use to keep their hair moisturized. There is a WEALTH of information on here girl. The search feature is you friend when you're a newbie. Hope this helps!!!

 

[remnant]

Welcome girl. You have come to the right place. No need to worry about a relaxer if you don't want one. Start by ONLY combing your hair when it's drenched in conditioner. Then you can use the search feature to find what other naturals use to keep their hair moisturized. There is a WEALTH of information on here girl. The search feature is you friend when you're a newbie. Hope this helps!!!

Very good advice!

 

[SignatureBeauty]

I have a question about headbands. Where can I get the pantyhose head bands and how long was your TWA before you started adding accessories? I think I may have an 1 1/2 inch or 2 inches, but I'm not sure if I will look right with headbands and stuff yet.

Hello! my Twa was 6 months old before I started adding accessories because I did a shave not a big chop LOL!! But headbands on me with my Twa and 1-2 inches just did not look right at all, so all I did was a wash and go, now I can throw on a headband and look good LOL!!! But this texas heat and sun can murder your hair so I keep mine cornrowed and add a phony bun with a comb attachment! Good Luck!

AUSSIE: Have you tried S Curl? Your hair is so beautiful!

 

[MissJ]

I always see y'all posting about the products that work for you, but when I go to the store I can never find them. Where do you purchase your products?

 

[Enchantmt]

ok im gettin sooooooooooooo tired of my hair being hard to comb after i wash it..... and blow drying is like playing in the olympics. I am seriously thinkin about gettin a relaxer. i really wanted to stay natural but its soooo heard when everyone has their own product and i dont want to become a PJ (need money for school). Are there any suggestions on how to turn natural NAPPY roots into lucious moisturizing curls? I need the name of products and the STEPS to get from a wash to the final stage. I am so desperate..... thanks to all

If you are using heavy pomades or products that contain beeswax or heavy moisturizers like shea, you may need to clarify. After a while those coat the hair and prevent moisture from getting IN. A lot of times clarifying allows your products to work like new again.

 

[Blackoutzangel05]

Here is a pic of the texture of my hair....do I belong here. I really haven't found any guidance on the texture of my hair but I believe that its a combination of 3c/4a....what do you professionals think?

 

[Aussie]

If you are using heavy pomades or products that contain beeswax or heavy moisturizers like shea, you may need to clarify. After a while those coat the hair and prevent moisture from getting IN. A lot of times clarifying allows your products to work like new again.

hi!! what is a good clarifying shampoo? i currently use creme of nature shampoo and conditioner for moisture. its workin great

 

[glamazon386]

What are 4a/4b's using to slick their puffs back with?
Regular gels don't seem to work for me?

OR

Perhaps I'm just not applying the gels right????????
I usually don't use a lot of product--maybe that's my problem????

For those who USE gel to slick back their pony/puffs....how much do you use??? I'm clueless

Maybe if I tell you what I currently do--you can help me out from there:
I usually dab a lil bit of gel all around freshly co-washed hair and try to brush/hand smooth the gel onto my hair. I then tie my hair up for about 30 minutes to let it set.
HOWEVER
I take the scarf off--and I still have frizzy hair that won't lay down????
What am I doing wrong?

I use Fantasia Gel on wet hair. I use about a golf ball sized clump. IDK why you're still getting frizzy hair after tieing it down with a scarf though. I generally don't tie mines down. I just make sure I brush the edges good.

 

[czyfaith77]

What are you all using to make you curls "POP". And what do you know BBD Glass? And how is Miss Jessie's products really working on 4a/4b hair

 

[Aussie]

hi!! what is a good clarifying shampoo? i currently use creme of nature shampoo and conditioner for moisture. its workin great

bumping thanks

 

[Enchantmt]

hi!! what is a good clarifying shampoo? i currently use creme of nature shampoo and conditioner for moisture. its workin great

I normally just use an ACV rinse. I have clarifying shampoo, but I havent used it in ages. In fact, I've had it a couple of years. It's by tresemme. I purchased it at Sally's.

http://longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?p=1579242

http://longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?p=633363

 

[glamazon386]

hi!! what is a good clarifying shampoo? i currently use creme of nature shampoo and conditioner for moisture. its workin great

I use V05 Kiwi Lime Squeeze