Libra08
Well-Known Member
@GeorginaSparks you sound a lot like my SO. I want to cuddle after sex every time and he's just ready for bed. I think I've gotten over that one now though bec he does a pretty good job wearing me out
@hopeful thanks much for all of your input! The one thing that really hit home for me that you mentioned is taking time for myself. I haven't been feeling to secure with myself so it is highly possible that I could be reaching out to him for extra security when I should just be working on myself.
And thanks to everyone for not going straight to the you should break up advice. Although he has trouble with physical affection he does do well with acts of service. He gets an A+ in that area it's just not a trait that I readily recognize. I'm learning to appreciate though and I make sure to tell him each time that i appreciate what he does for me. I know he's trying so I should just take @Fine 4s and wait until he catches up with me.
@hopeful thanks much for all of your input! The one thing that really hit home for me that you mentioned is taking time for myself. I haven't been feeling to secure with myself so it is highly possible that I could be reaching out to him for extra security when I should just be working on myself.
And thanks to everyone for not going straight to the you should break up advice. Although he has trouble with physical affection he does do well with acts of service. He gets an A+ in that area it's just not a trait that I readily recognize. I'm learning to appreciate though and I make sure to tell him each time that i appreciate what he does for me. I know he's trying so I should just take @Fine 4s and wait until he catches up with me.