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ClassicBeauty said:I'll be the first to go against the grain and say that I'm not all that affectionate. I need my own space, and I'm not very touchy-feely. I mean, we can cuddle for a while, but then I like to have my own space after a little while. DH & I have been together for over 6 years and married for over 4. I'm not into PDA either.
I'm like this too. I'm not very affectionate but I can be affectionate for periods of time. I just can't deal with it all the time. And like you I definitely need my space. I could never be compatible with someone that needed to be up under me constantly. It would drive me nuts. I just have to have a certain amount of me time (time by myself to decompress) or I get irritated or my patient gets short.
My DH and I have been together for 18 yrs. and married for 14. He is more affectionate than me but gives me space when I need it. I think it works out also because he likes his space at times too. I'm funny about PDA too, but I compromise if he initiates it.