You're in the middle of a nasty divorce..

^^^^ Wow.

I know someone who kept the baby and divorced the husband. The child is now 7 and the ex husband doesn't even know she exists.
 
Well, its not like the kid does not know his father. He does, there have been visits (never overnight or without her), and the father does give her money. So they father and son do have a relationship of sorts, the father is pretty cool (i.e. sane, not an abuser or a junkie), and for the most part my friend and the father can come to terms about the kid.
 
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JayAnn0513 said:
Do we have other kids?
Is he violent?
Can "we" afford another kid?

Lots of questions...

I hate to be a broken record but the #1 cause of death of pregnant women is murder...

Also in TX you can not be granted a divorce for 365 days after you have a baby. So you are going to be stuck with him another 2 yrs!!!
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WTF?! That's either not true or not adhered by.

itismehmmkay said:
Yep; It doesn't have to be 365 days after, but you can't be prego and granted a divorce.....regardless of who the father is too.
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Oh okay. That sounds reasonable. Cuz I have my lawyer as one of my top 5 people in my phone :look: and he made no issue with the age of ds2.
 
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If we had other kids together I'd keep it - We would have to see each other anyway for the other kids.

If we had no kids, I'd probably abort but it depends on my age -- If I was getting close to menopause I'd definitely keep it.
 
It depends on a lot of circumstances and if I want to co-parent with the man about to become my ex-husband. Most likely I'd terminate the pregnancy.
 
itismehmmkay said:
Yep; It doesn't have to be 365 days after, but you can't be prego and granted a divorce.....regardless of who the father is too.

This is a good question though; I'd probably stay married until the lil one was walking then file for divorce again if I still wanted one.
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Your rights the 365 thing has something to do with a child born within 365 days of divorce is assumed to the the husbands. The number stuck because I thought that was weird as heck.
 
This happened to my mom. We were homeless so she didn't have the money for an abortion.

My mom and dad tried for 4 years to get me. Then my dad became a crackhead after I was born. They hadn't slept together in years and he said one more time as she as out the door and my mom was pregnant with my brother. She doesn't regret having him.

But there was a time where the stress nearly killed her. All I remember from my mom's pregnancy and for years after was her being sick. She was literally told that going into labor at a certain time would have killed her so she was receiving blood transfusions multiple times a week.

Couldn't be me. I'd be done.
 
I would be MAD AS HELL ahahaha That kid would come out looking like my ex cuz I'd hate the man

This happened to my cousin. She got pregnant a week before her DH left her. She kept her baby and he's a beautiful little boy. Her ex was mad at hell, but too bad so sad for him.
 
JayAnn0513 said:
Now that's dirty. That I wouldn't do.
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I was thinking the same thing JayAnn. When I read it, I was like "now that's gangsta..." :nono:

In her attempt to screw him out of his daughter, she also screws her daughter out of a relationship with her dad - which by the way, she's ENTITLED to have... :rolleyes:

I can totally see that coming back to haunt mom later... :sad:
 
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