This is embarrassing, but before the forum, I didn't know the difference between a clarifying and a moisturizing shampoo or protein v. moisturizing conditioner...
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It's not embarassing, I just found about clarifying this year. I finally figured out why my relaxers never straightened my hair, it was because I didn't use anything but let's jam and I had it caked up and didn't wash my hair before seeing the stylist to relax.
I had never clarified before. Looking back I can't belive it.
I didn't have a stash, my mother traveled a lot so I used a lot of those hotel shampoos and conditioners.
I used tcb grease, the black gel for a while then I upgraded to Let's Jam

I used motions moisture plus sometimes and cholesterol any brand.
I never used leave ins or protectants or protein treatments. Sometimes I just would wash with shampoo and but my dry hair in a ponytail with some jam and call it a day.
My hair stayed at shoulder length.