Cooyah
New Member
ok so I know we have alot of these threads all the time but it happened to me last night and I was hurt to say the least.
so i moved to this US this week for school and mummy flew up yesterday to help me move into my place and she sees all of my supplements (Multivit, B5 vit, Biotin, MSM and a few others) and asks what they are for, so I tell her i'm not only trying to get healthy but grow my hair out as well and I thought that was the end of it. So we're sitting at the table and she tells me I need a relaxer because my hair nappy, so i explain to her that i'm stretching my relaxer until April to give it time to thrive and she point blank tells me that my hair looks ugly and I was not meant to have long hair so I need to find a hair stylist and just get them to cut it and just maintain that style. She goes on to say that she was reading in Essence (or Ebony or Jet can't remember) Magazine that black women weren't meant to grow hair like white women and we just need to maintain our hair in short styles, wash our faces and sleep on satin pillowcases. I just looked at her and shook my head.
she's my mum, i love her but now i HAVE to prove her wrong, ya know wot I mean? She has below shoulder length hair and loves to flaunt how healthy her hair is and blah blah blah but the tells me I just don't have it in me to grow hair, I was pissed, still am sort of but I realise that I was in the same place before finding Robin's hair site or LHCF, i showed her the site when I found it and she thinks that EVERYONE'S hair is weave on here to try and sell people something. I'm done with my rant and you ladies are the only one's who will understand. thanks for letting me vent.
cia
so i moved to this US this week for school and mummy flew up yesterday to help me move into my place and she sees all of my supplements (Multivit, B5 vit, Biotin, MSM and a few others) and asks what they are for, so I tell her i'm not only trying to get healthy but grow my hair out as well and I thought that was the end of it. So we're sitting at the table and she tells me I need a relaxer because my hair nappy, so i explain to her that i'm stretching my relaxer until April to give it time to thrive and she point blank tells me that my hair looks ugly and I was not meant to have long hair so I need to find a hair stylist and just get them to cut it and just maintain that style. She goes on to say that she was reading in Essence (or Ebony or Jet can't remember) Magazine that black women weren't meant to grow hair like white women and we just need to maintain our hair in short styles, wash our faces and sleep on satin pillowcases. I just looked at her and shook my head.
she's my mum, i love her but now i HAVE to prove her wrong, ya know wot I mean? She has below shoulder length hair and loves to flaunt how healthy her hair is and blah blah blah but the tells me I just don't have it in me to grow hair, I was pissed, still am sort of but I realise that I was in the same place before finding Robin's hair site or LHCF, i showed her the site when I found it and she thinks that EVERYONE'S hair is weave on here to try and sell people something. I'm done with my rant and you ladies are the only one's who will understand. thanks for letting me vent.
cia