Yes, I put myself out there.

hope it works out for you, always gotta follow your heart it won;t steer you wrong....listening to others outside of you and following rules or another's method of anything can easily have you all over the place except where you need and want to be
 
Women tend to over romanticize relationships. There's nothing wrong with what you did. My thoughts, from a biblical stand point, great women in the bible presented themselves to men they wanted to marry. They were guided by someone but known the less they made the intial move (Ruth and Esther). I am happy for you and I hope it works out for you. Like Ruth and Esther, make sure you are prepared inside and out and you'll be just fine.


good luck with things! so happy for you and i'm sure things will work out just fine. just as prettyface said, just make sure you are prepared, (as well as him) and you will go far together.
 
Update 5/19/09 He is back calling and texting more frequently more than just general chit chat. We haven't been out as of yet mainly because of grad school for me and he just started a new job. We have talked about what went wrong and what we are both looking forward to in the future. Starting slowly, he is very receptive so I am happy.

It's a start.
 
Ya'll gonna have a good time when you finally get a chance to go out:). Glad things are progressing nicely.
 
Ya'll gonna have a good time when you finally get a chance to go out:). Glad things are progressing nicely.

More than likely this weekend since it is the holiday. He has been texting me cute stuff all morning. I told him I will talk to him tonight after class.
 
More than likely this weekend since it is the holiday. He has been texting me cute stuff all morning. I told him I will talk to him tonight after class.

This is a great weekend to go out--a nice start to the summer. Have fun. It sounds like he is excited about getting a second chance.
 
Yes, it was nice.

On Tuesday I receive and email, text and phone call from the other guy I broke it off with. He poured his heart out to me. I had no idea he felt that way. He told me he would do any and everything to be with me. He was falling in love with me and he was making it his goal to have me fall in love with him. I was so taken aback and I was utterly speechless. He said he has never chased a woman in his life and he would chase me to the ends of the earth to have me. He said he wasn't crazy and he wasn't going to turn into a stalker or anything be he really wants us to be together. He told me the whole story on what he was going to do and even if my feelings weren't that strong for him right now he wants to nurture a relationship because I am a good woman.......................

I am like "What the Heezy?"

My good friend said that he backed off too easy when I broke it off from him. It has only been 3 weeks. She said I would either never hear from him again or this would happen. I figured after 3 weeks of no contact he would have taken the never hear from him road. I told you we weren't that serious, or at least I wasn't. Again nice guy, lots of fun to be around and everything, but there just wasn't any spark especially since I was caught up on my ex. So my good friend said be careful, because the ex has not come through as of yet and I might want to reconsider since a lot of people don't feel the spark initially but it eventually happens if you let it.

I have never had anything happen like this before.
 
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Good job. Let him know from jump what you expect. It seems like the feelings are mutual-that's a good thing. Enjoy it! You are on your way to a great relationship.
 
So now you have two guys:grin:. I'm glad you had a nice date and it's interesting that the other guy is coming on so strong. Keep us updated, sounds like you are going to have an interesting summer.
 
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