dimechiq
Well-Known Member
He treats you nicely, supports you, is there for you, and you're beginning to fall for him. He works everyday, a very hard worker. Is very very good looking, and pays his child support as he should.
But, he has a past reputation for constant cheating on his past wife (divorced 2-3 yrs ago) of which she had to leave because of it, they'd been married 8-9 yrs, and she left with children on her back, and he was constantly at the clubs every Fri, Sat and Sun nights?
And you know of a really nice girl he dated about 5 mos after the divorce and also treated her like dirt and supposedly gave her an STD.
Oh and from time to time this guy was (don't know about now) known to smoke "weed" periodically.
He says he has changed. Yes he has a job (40k/yr), but with 2 small kids for child support. You have a very good paying job and no children. And an excellent reputation of being true to your boyfriends no cheating or clubbing.
2.5-3 years later would you give this type of guy a chance? Do you think he would have changed after this and other drastic changes in his life? Is he worth it? Or would you move on and find another one. (oh and you are in your mid 30's)
But, he has a past reputation for constant cheating on his past wife (divorced 2-3 yrs ago) of which she had to leave because of it, they'd been married 8-9 yrs, and she left with children on her back, and he was constantly at the clubs every Fri, Sat and Sun nights?
And you know of a really nice girl he dated about 5 mos after the divorce and also treated her like dirt and supposedly gave her an STD.
Oh and from time to time this guy was (don't know about now) known to smoke "weed" periodically.
He says he has changed. Yes he has a job (40k/yr), but with 2 small kids for child support. You have a very good paying job and no children. And an excellent reputation of being true to your boyfriends no cheating or clubbing.
2.5-3 years later would you give this type of guy a chance? Do you think he would have changed after this and other drastic changes in his life? Is he worth it? Or would you move on and find another one. (oh and you are in your mid 30's)
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