WOMANIZER.. That's what HE IS!!!

[BonnieB]

Ok so I trust you ladies judgement so i decided to elaborate on the topic my cousins and I seem to rant over.
LIARS!

Why do men lie? Why must they lie when your not their damn girlfriend but have the nerve to try to put a damn leash on you, and when you put them in their place, the one we agreed on (friends or beau's for now), they catch a damn hissy fit?

Why in the he!! must they lie about seeing other people if we are clearly dating?

Why are they messing with other females and not protecting themselves when STDs, HIV & AIDS are out there? (i know cuz i'm nosey, a damn spy, and i eyes all over Brooklyn telling me about his stank a$$)

Why must they leave you a$$ed out on your birthday (yes his bright A$$ did, yesterday 11-23)?

Why must he shack up with some female, ask you to come over and when you call before you get there he rejects the damn call? The had the nerve to lie and say he left his phone with his cousin.

Now i know im damn near a decade younger than his butt, but I am far from dumb. Been through alot in my few decades here on earth. AND I KNOW A LIE WHEN I HEAR ONE!

Now I know guys lie but damn, if your grown what the h3!! are you lying for and have the nerve to make up some weak, tired a$$ lies to cover up the 1st damn lie.. LMAO!

Then going off when i don't answer my phone or his messages.

Men make me laugh especially... Well they are all funny... not all only the ones who try to be proper but are straight hood but know the only way they could talk to you is if they approach you in a proper manner.

I had to get that out of my system.

 

[bimbabe]

(((Hugs)))
I don't know why they lie! But you will be ok!

 

[*~*Afrolicious*~*]

The guys you are describing are immature little boys, not men.

 

[Theo]

Wow... he sounds despicable! Leave him alone!

 

[curlcomplexity]

The guys you are describing are immature little boys, not men.

I agree. Leave him alone, you deserve better!

BTW: Happy Belated Birthday

 

[Divine Inspiration]

:::begins fanning Angeshrty6 with a Martin Luther King church fan:::

It's alright, girl. Get it all out. I agree with the poster who said that's a boy. Real men don't carry on that way.

Men only do what you allow them to. Teach the how to treat you and you'll never deal with the type of treatment you mentioned. He's shown you who he is so believe him now or get that popcorn ready for next time.

Feel better.

 

[BonnieB]

The guys you are describing are immature little boys, not men.

Well he's 31 with 2 children so he's a man in age but a little boy when it comes to maturity, obviously.

 

[BonnieB]

I agree. Leave him alone, you deserve better!

BTW: Happy Belated Birthday

THANK YOU:blowkiss:.. Ladies.. HE'S LONG GONE!!!

 

[Onyx]

Ok so I trust you ladies judgement so i decided to elaborate on the topic my cousins and I seem to rant over.
LIARS!

Why do men lie? Why must they lie when your not their damn girlfriend but have the nerve to try to put a damn leash on you, and when you put them in their place, the one we agreed on (friends or beau's for now), they catch a damn hissy fit?

Why in the he!! must they lie about seeing other people if we are clearly dating?

Why are they messing with other females and not protecting themselves when STDs, HIV & AIDS are out there? (i know cuz i'm nosey, a damn spy, and i eyes all over Brooklyn telling me about his stank a$$)

Why must they leave you a$$ed out on your birthday (yes his bright A$$ did, yesterday 11-23)?

Why must he shack up with some female, ask you to come over and when you call before you get there he rejects the damn call? The had the nerve to lie and say he left his phone with his cousin.

Now i know im damn near a decade younger than his butt, but I am far from dumb. Been through alot in my few decades here on earth. AND I KNOW A LIE WHEN I HEAR ONE!

Now I know guys lie but damn, if your grown what the h3!! are you lying for and have the nerve to make up some weak, tired a$$ lies to cover up the 1st damn lie.. LMAO!

Then going off when i don't answer my phone or his messages.

Men make me laugh especially... Well they are all funny... not all only the ones who try to be proper but are straight hood but know the only way they could talk to you is if they approach you in a proper manner.

I had to get that out of my system.

Is this behavior all by the SAME person? If so, the real question is why did you put up with all this ****???! Cut them off at the first signs of BS....you deserve better!

 

[ThatJerseyGirl]

Ok so I trust you ladies judgement so i decided to elaborate on the topic my cousins and I seem to rant over.
LIARS!
*Lightin up, bout to blaze up* ``puff``

Why do men lie? Why must they lie when your not their damn girlfriend but have the nerve to try to put a damn leash on you, and when you put them in their place, the one we agreed on (friends or beau's for now), they catch a damn hissy fit?

Cuz men by nature are territorial just like dogs. And just like when u punish a dog and rub his nose in his mess, they don't like it and throw a fit. See the commonality...which is how they got da rep for bein dogs. Now ders a flip side. If yall boyfriend n girlfriend in da bedroom, but friends on da outside...he is still going to be territorial cuz he screwin u and u screwin him and see, once they hit it (mark their territory like Dogs), they think they own it.

Why in the he!! must they lie about seeing other people if we are clearly dating?

cuz yall ain't datin if yall bedroom chummies cuz see, u said either friends or beaus for now. that last lil statement right der left da gate open a lil bit for da dog to get out da yard n find otha b-tches to screw.

Why are they messing with other females and not protecting themselves when STDs, HIV & AIDS are out there? (i know cuz i'm nosey, a damn spy, and i eyes all over Brooklyn telling me about his stank a$$)

cuz men are stuck on stupid and broke da hell down on dumb. cuz see they only look at da big but n da smile...da physical. all they wanna do is hit n roll out. they dont care bout dat gift dat keeps on givin. and how u know he havin unprotected sex? *raised eyebrow* i wouldn't even have my "eyes" all ova brooklyn tryna figa out what he doin. dat makes u look real pressed and he knows what ur doin, das why he does what he does cuz he knows dat makes u want him more. sounds sick but its da truth. its an ego thing for dem cuz he thinkin..."yeah, i got her".....yup yup....

Why must they leave you a$$ed out on your birthday (yes his bright A$$ did, yesterday 11-23)?

cuz he's just not into u (not u per se, but i'm jus sayin)....and its sad cuz das says a whole lot right der...

Why must he shack up with some female, ask you to come over and when you call before you get there he rejects the damn call? The had the nerve to lie and say he left his phone with his cousin.

why? cuz he know u down and will come ova and do just bout whateva to see him. yup he lied, but da bottom line, he won again cuz u allowed him to play u. (not sayin u per se, but i'm jus sayin) ``pullin off my newport one hunnert``

Now i know im damn near a decade younger than his butt, but I am far from dumb. Been through alot in my few decades here on earth. AND I KNOW A LIE WHEN I HEAR ONE!

den recognize and stop allowin dis fool to play u.....he know he lyin and he know he can tell u anything and get away wif it....its called game....and usually when game recognize game, one must change strategy, stop bein da playee n become da playa.

Now I know guys lie but damn, if your grown what the h3!! are you lying for and have the nerve to make up some weak, tired a$$ lies to cover up the 1st damn lie.. LMAO!

see my previous statement up der ^^

Then going off when i don't answer my phone or his messages.

cuz u always make urself available to him and das a no no see, dogs like attention. when u stop pattin dem on da heads, they get mad n start goin off, actin stupid. same thing applies hea...he wonderin why u ain't available when he thinks ur suppose to be. neva eva be too available for a man. it makes the art of pursuit and the chase weak, then they will eventally lose interest and find someone else to pet their head...or in this case feed their egos.


Men make me laugh especially... Well they are all funny... not all only the ones who try to be proper but are straight hood but know the only way they could talk to you is if they approach you in a proper manner.

humm....lemme marinate on dis one. *puff* iight...... first impressions....da dog knows how to sit n heel to be a good doggie... honestly, dis shouldn't make u laff....u gotta step up UR game n stop bein da playee n be da playa.....getcha respect back. damn if imma let a brotha carry me...aint happenin...a man only gonna do whatchu allow him to do. point blank n simple.

I had to get that out of my system.

glad u got it outta ur system. now all u gotta do (not u per se, but i'm sayin) is strategize, getcha self respect back n be da playa...u should have dis bama trippin ova u, not da otha way around. we got da most powerful thing in da world to a man..we all know what dat is and he'll do anything to get it...gotta make it hard n make him work for it..when u work hard for something u appreciate it more.....trust me on dis one hea...

now lemme go comb my wig out for t'morro....

 

[itismehmmkay]

glad u got it outta ur system. now all u gotta do (not u per se, but i'm sayin) is strategize, getcha self respect back n be da playa...u should have dis bama trippin ova u, not da otha way around. we got da most powerful thing in da world to a man..we all know what dat is and he'll do anything to get it...gotta make it hard n make him work for it..when u work hard for something u appreciate it more.....trust me on dis one hea...

now lemme go comb my wig out for t'morro....

And true...

 

[TCatt86]

glad u got it outta ur system. now all u gotta do (not u per se, but i'm sayin) is strategize, getcha self respect back n be da playa...u should have dis bama trippin ova u, not da otha way around. we got da most powerful thing in da world to a man..we all know what dat is and he'll do anything to get it...gotta make it hard n make him work for it..when u work hard for something u appreciate it more.....trust me on dis one hea...

now lemme go comb my wig out for t'morro....

I know you're dead serious but you made me laugh, this is real right here.

 

[chicacanella]

I'm distracted by your hair. Just beautiful!

But ummm, why isn't there anything in your fotki?

And ummm, men can be jerks sometimes.

 

[Mai Tai]

Instead of blaming him, the real question that needs to be asked is 'WHY did you allow this man to treat you like this?!" I mean come on! I can understand if you fall for the okey-doke 1-2 times, but you listed 9 things. NINE!!! I do not mean to slam you, and I say this with mad respect, but there comes a time in life when you have to grow up, take accountability for your own actions, and mistakes, and can no longer play victim when YOU choose to put up with his lies. Can you really get mad at a man that does things that he knows he can get away with.

Can't say I have much sympathy...UMMMM... Not so much.

 

[cocoberry10]

:::begins fanning Angeshrty6 with a Martin Luther King church fan:::

It's alright, girl. Get it all out. I agree with the poster who said that's a boy. Real men don't carry on that way.

Men only do what you allow them to. Teach the how to treat you and you'll never deal with the type of treatment you mentioned. He's shown you who he is so believe him now or get that popcorn ready for next time.

Feel better.

Get out of my head

 

[NYAmicas]

The guys you are describing are immature little boys, not men.

Exactly! Happy Belated Birthday, OP! Kick his behind to the curb now so that next year you'll have a MAN with you on your birthday.

 

[Junebug D]

Well he's 31 with 2 children so he's a man in age but a little boy when it comes to maturity, obviously.

GIRL! I had to check where you lived because for a minute I was gonna ask you if we knew the same dude!

Can't really give you any advice because I'm going through nearly the exact same thing that you are.

We've gotta learn to treat ourselves better because we deserve better than some man to lie to you when he's already saying you're not in a relationship anyway!

 

[BonnieB]

glad u got it outta ur system. now all u gotta do (not u per se, but i'm sayin) is strategize, getcha self respect back n be da playa...u should have dis bama trippin ova u, not da otha way around. we got da most powerful thing in da world to a man..we all know what dat is and he'll do anything to get it...gotta make it hard n make him work for it..when u work hard for something u appreciate it more.....trust me on dis one hea...

now lemme go comb my wig out for t'morro....

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!! SOO much. So, I'm soo over this dude but he's such an a$$ that he calls and texts me but i just ignore him. Don't answer nor do i text back. He left a message with my cousin telling her to tell me... idk because when she mentioned his name i damn near killed her with my look. So he's missing what he thought was a fool (me) but there's way more men out there and "good" ones at that. so to h311 with him. I"m too focused with school, my priorities, fam and hair to be annoyed, especially by him. School now men later.. waaaay LATER! Years later from now.

 

[NYAmicas]

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!! SOO much. So, I'm soo over this dude but he's such an a$$ that he calls and texts me but i just ignore him. Don't answer nor do i text back. He left a message with my cousin telling her to tell me... idk because when she mentioned his name i damn near killed her with my look. So he's missing what he thought was a fool (me) but there's way more men out there and "good" ones at that. so to h311 with him. I"m too focused with school, my priorities, fam and hair to be annoyed, especially by him. School now men later.. waaaay LATER! Years later from now.

Thanks for updating, lol he came back after realizing what he had. That's what that chump gets!

 

[BonnieB]

Why are they messing with other females and not protecting themselves when STDs, HIV & AIDS are out there? (i know cuz i'm nosey, a damn spy, and i eyes all over Brooklyn telling me about his stank a$$)

cuz men are stuck on stupid and broke da hell down on dumb. cuz see they only look at da big but n da smile...da physical. all they wanna do is hit n roll out. they dont care bout dat gift dat keeps on givin. and how u know he havin unprotected sex? *raised eyebrow* i wouldn't even have my "eyes" all ova brooklyn tryna figa out what he doin. dat makes u look real pressed and he knows what ur doin, das why he does what he does cuz he knows dat makes u want him more. sounds sick but its da truth. its an ego thing for dem cuz he thinkin..."yeah, i got her".....yup yup.... [quote]

And I knew he was having unprotected sex with other females because he told me that he didn't have protected sex with his last 3 females he "dated" and one he slept with (without protection) 3 weeks after he met her. I guess i was just assuming but hey.. it doesn't matter now.

 

[LadyChe]

And I knew he was having unprotected sex with other females because he told me that he didn't have protected sex with his last 3 females he "dated" and one he slept with (without protection) 3 weeks after he met her. I guess i was just assuming but hey.. it doesn't matter now.

That's one of those pebbles G-d hits you with before he hits you with the brick. When guys let you know of the trifling tendencies they had with other women, they're really just preparing your for your own future.