I swore off online dating quite some time ago. I can go on match.com now and see much of the same guys that were on there back in 2005 when I initially signed up there. It makes me wonder why some of them are still single after 4 years? Something must really be wrong with them. Meetup.com is great for meeting people in general but be wary of signing up for all female geared groups because you will end up hanging with a bunch of women all the time which will get you nowhere fast if you are looking to meet a guy.