greenandchic
Well-Known Member
I've been dating a man I met late January of this year until last month. We've seen each other an average of 1-2x a week - dinners out, parties he's thrown, wine tasting, etc. The last time I went out with him was May 3rd. We've exchanged a few emails, but no plans have been made to see each other. When I've hinted at it, he's busy.
When we were together, we have a great time; we have a lot in common, love to laugh, hold hands, talk, kiss, etc. We never got far enough in our "relationship" where we've reached a rough point, so he didn't argue. We were never sexual so I can't say he he got what he wanted and is done with me, nor did he ever even pursue sex with me (with me turning him down) so that's not the issue either.
I think I might know why he's no longer interested in me: I am disabled, on disability and work part-time. He is much more materially stable and probably don't want someone to weigh him down financially due to the fact that I probably make a small fraction he does.
I started to really like him, but I know now the feeling is not mutual. I wish he would just tell me he's no longer interested, tell me he's serious about someone else, of whatever so that I can emotionally move on. Why do guys do this - leave the other person hanging?
When we were together, we have a great time; we have a lot in common, love to laugh, hold hands, talk, kiss, etc. We never got far enough in our "relationship" where we've reached a rough point, so he didn't argue. We were never sexual so I can't say he he got what he wanted and is done with me, nor did he ever even pursue sex with me (with me turning him down) so that's not the issue either.
I think I might know why he's no longer interested in me: I am disabled, on disability and work part-time. He is much more materially stable and probably don't want someone to weigh him down financially due to the fact that I probably make a small fraction he does.
I started to really like him, but I know now the feeling is not mutual. I wish he would just tell me he's no longer interested, tell me he's serious about someone else, of whatever so that I can emotionally move on. Why do guys do this - leave the other person hanging?