Hairsnob
Deep Thinker
This is a guy I met recently that I spoke about in another thread where I was learning to date more than one man.
We spoke a few times and I lost interest for whatever reasons. Partly because he doesn't let me get a word in and I'm drained listening to him yap. There's another reason but that's another thread (handsome in the club while wearing a hat but not so much in daylight) LOL.
Anyway, I started unintentionally blowing him off. I say unintentionally because I said I wanted to learn to date more than one guy and maybe develop a friendship if it doesn't go further.
So here's the text convo. You tell me if you can tell how he doesn't listen. Uggh!!
HIM: Hello, I called back but u never answer
ME: My service sucks!! (I really did have phone signal problems and I told him that already)
HIM: I want to see u crazy lady
ME: LOL Just say when and we'll make plans. I'm too slow-pokey to be spontaneous
HIM: Right now
ME: Surely you jest
HIM: So that's no?
ME: ^^^^Read four texts up. Not good at last minute stuff.
HIM: OK Hairsnob u let me know ur availability
I never responded because I was frustrated and not really interested in making a date at that point. But my point is, you can see how men will only do what you LET them do. I never liked men asking me for first dates thru texts and I like when they make real plans with me and not just last minute meet ups. Before this he was just making general plans like ok, we need to see each other but never said a solid plan. Now after this he's saying actual things like let's do dinner or lunch.
I can't stress it enough, men LOVE a challenge and will get away with what you let them. This guy is basically history with me though but it still proves that point.
We spoke a few times and I lost interest for whatever reasons. Partly because he doesn't let me get a word in and I'm drained listening to him yap. There's another reason but that's another thread (handsome in the club while wearing a hat but not so much in daylight) LOL.
Anyway, I started unintentionally blowing him off. I say unintentionally because I said I wanted to learn to date more than one guy and maybe develop a friendship if it doesn't go further.
So here's the text convo. You tell me if you can tell how he doesn't listen. Uggh!!
HIM: Hello, I called back but u never answer
ME: My service sucks!! (I really did have phone signal problems and I told him that already)
HIM: I want to see u crazy lady
ME: LOL Just say when and we'll make plans. I'm too slow-pokey to be spontaneous
HIM: Right now
ME: Surely you jest
HIM: So that's no?
ME: ^^^^Read four texts up. Not good at last minute stuff.
HIM: OK Hairsnob u let me know ur availability
I never responded because I was frustrated and not really interested in making a date at that point. But my point is, you can see how men will only do what you LET them do. I never liked men asking me for first dates thru texts and I like when they make real plans with me and not just last minute meet ups. Before this he was just making general plans like ok, we need to see each other but never said a solid plan. Now after this he's saying actual things like let's do dinner or lunch.
I can't stress it enough, men LOVE a challenge and will get away with what you let them. This guy is basically history with me though but it still proves that point.