Yea, I can already hear the reasoning "men do the choosing," which to some women seem to mean that they really don't have a choice.
I can't listen to ONE MORE story of a woman in a situation where she is behaving as if she doesn't have any power over what she chooses to put up with. I know matters of the heart are complicated, but you DO have a choice regarding:
-the kind of men you date;
-whether or not you choose to give "everything" to a man who refuses to commit to you
-your standards when dating/in a relationship with a man
-the choice to speak the truth about what you want. If you want a relationship stop pretending that "come over and chill" is good with you. You are lying to yourself and that man
-Being with men who abhors the idea of marriage even though you want to be married.
etc. etc.
You can't control anyone, you can only control yourself. You do have power, YOU ALSO CHOOSE.
Jumping off soap box.
I can't listen to ONE MORE story of a woman in a situation where she is behaving as if she doesn't have any power over what she chooses to put up with. I know matters of the heart are complicated, but you DO have a choice regarding:
-the kind of men you date;
-whether or not you choose to give "everything" to a man who refuses to commit to you
-your standards when dating/in a relationship with a man
-the choice to speak the truth about what you want. If you want a relationship stop pretending that "come over and chill" is good with you. You are lying to yourself and that man
-Being with men who abhors the idea of marriage even though you want to be married.
etc. etc.
You can't control anyone, you can only control yourself. You do have power, YOU ALSO CHOOSE.
Jumping off soap box.