Why do guys try to make something pop off...

[MissJ]

with somebody else when they've been kicked to the curb less than a week before? Don't they need time to mourn?

 

[Kiadodie]

with somebody else when they've been kicked to the curb less than a week before? Don't they need time to mourn?

THey don't believe in mourning girl. We sit at him and think about how and when things happened and what we could've done etc etc. while men usually just move along. erplexed

 

[juju]

Men are just men !
women are very different on that matter.

 

[FlawedBeauty]

haha mourn what?! if they moved on that fast they were probably gettin it in way b4 they got kicked to the curb!

 

[cutiepiebabygirl]

men can"t take being alone it drives them crazy!!

i know several men, who say that when they knew their relationship started to go down..they started looking for a "side junt"..and would keep her on hold ( ie: show her just enough attention...and string her along) just in case things didn't work out in their current relationship.

then if the current relationship..went to hell..they didn't miss a beat..they had another woman ready, willing and able..who was happy to have him!

i was also told that they wouldn't try as hard with the current relationship..because they knew they had a back-up.

these are their words exactly...i'm not saying all men do this..but quite a few do.

 

[1Aleeesha]

men can"t take being alone it drives them crazy!!

i know several men, who say that when they knew their relationship started to go down..they started looking for a "side junt"..and would keep her on hold ( ie: show her just enough attention...and string her along) just in case things didn't work out in their current relationship.

then if the current relationship..went to hell..they didn't miss a beat..they had another woman ready, willing and able..who was happy to have him!

i was also told that they wouldn't try as hard with the current relationship..because they knew they had a back-up.

these are their words exactly...i'm not saying all men do this..but quite a few do.

Agreed upon.

 

[HoneyDew]

sex.

 

[Likeyouneverseenme]

Men don't mourn like we do.
They bottle things up, get a jumpoff and the culmination of all bottled up stress and heartache will give them some physical anguish in the long run.
I believe that women get older than men because we process our feelings, imagine not talking to anyone about how you feel inside?

I would be miserable and sick.

 

[SvelteVelvet]

That IS mourning to guys! Lol..no seriously, the fact that men can compartmentalize their emotions from sex creates alot of these WTF? moments with women when speaking about mens behavioral tendencies. But you said, less than a week before? Well if it was anytime after the first 24 hours it should be expected. Of men I know who were mourning a relationship, the first day is tough, not wanting to do much, might even cry, but check them the day after that, could be a brand new man..on the surface.

Though it's usually 'the way it is' with men and everybody processess everything differently, it's definately unhealthy. Any man I've known with the tendency to jump from chick to chick in this manner has an underdeveloped personality and has MAJOR character flaws, repeats the same drama filled scenarios, and more than likely, (and ironically due to the desperate attempts not to be) will end up lonely or 'settling' for what is around at the time.

 

[MissMeWithThatIsh]

Men use new poon to get over old poon. They drown their hurt and pain and any feelings of self-negativity with conquest... Not all, but most. Then after it gets old, they settle down and try again.

Women do that too.