latebloomer
New Member
Hi Girls,
I'm here to vent, me and my bf have had problems in the past, and i have been finding it hard to move on from. but asides from that he just frustrated me so much today...
I texted him to ask him his views on marriage as in how he sees it, his fears etc... he gave me some wacky answer about when you with someone you know if they're the one that you will want to marry but sometimes you may have doubts. I then went on to ask him so how would you deal with it if you have doubts and you have certain people around you (fast, dodgy girls) he siad something about everyones entitled decisions and the person would have to make the right decision for themselves... so im like huh, texted him back said that dont answer my question and i dont understand what he just said.
Then he went on to ask me about my past when we broke up which had nothing to do with what i was talking about, i answered his question and he went on and on and on. each time i texted him i kept on asking but what has that got to do with what i asked you and how does it even apply if i wasnt with you.
This carried on for about 20 texts or so, by this time im practically boiling, cuz when i go on about the past he's the 1st to tell me about stop living in the past.
Up till now he still hasnt been able to tell me what his point was in the conversation. but when i called him, obviously by this time so frustrated he gave me his answer about marriage on the phone, with me coaching it out of him but still cant explain the point of going throough all of that.
He's now texted me and said, "sorry babe, i cant talk now, but i hear you. I should of gone about things in a different manner. I hope you understood my views on marriage. x"
By this time i dont care about your stupid views cuz i dont get your point in all that other crap and i had to call you and drag it out of you cuz u were rambling about something you still have been unable to let me know the relevance on. i know i may sound like a drama queen, but this man really ticks me the hell off!!!!!!
am i overeacting or can someone relate to when another person does irrelavent things to push your buttons, then acts like they didnt do nothing wrong!!!!!
there are most prob a lot of spelling mistakes i type crap when im angry... sorry..lol
I'm here to vent, me and my bf have had problems in the past, and i have been finding it hard to move on from. but asides from that he just frustrated me so much today...
I texted him to ask him his views on marriage as in how he sees it, his fears etc... he gave me some wacky answer about when you with someone you know if they're the one that you will want to marry but sometimes you may have doubts. I then went on to ask him so how would you deal with it if you have doubts and you have certain people around you (fast, dodgy girls) he siad something about everyones entitled decisions and the person would have to make the right decision for themselves... so im like huh, texted him back said that dont answer my question and i dont understand what he just said.
Then he went on to ask me about my past when we broke up which had nothing to do with what i was talking about, i answered his question and he went on and on and on. each time i texted him i kept on asking but what has that got to do with what i asked you and how does it even apply if i wasnt with you.
This carried on for about 20 texts or so, by this time im practically boiling, cuz when i go on about the past he's the 1st to tell me about stop living in the past.
Up till now he still hasnt been able to tell me what his point was in the conversation. but when i called him, obviously by this time so frustrated he gave me his answer about marriage on the phone, with me coaching it out of him but still cant explain the point of going throough all of that.
He's now texted me and said, "sorry babe, i cant talk now, but i hear you. I should of gone about things in a different manner. I hope you understood my views on marriage. x"
By this time i dont care about your stupid views cuz i dont get your point in all that other crap and i had to call you and drag it out of you cuz u were rambling about something you still have been unable to let me know the relevance on. i know i may sound like a drama queen, but this man really ticks me the hell off!!!!!!
am i overeacting or can someone relate to when another person does irrelavent things to push your buttons, then acts like they didnt do nothing wrong!!!!!
there are most prob a lot of spelling mistakes i type crap when im angry... sorry..lol