movingforward13
I do what I want...
When you move on?
I have done everything possible to diffuse and avoid drama with my ex. But now it just seems like he is finding ANYTHING to start a fight with.
I got this email yesterday.... (I banned him from texting or calling me unless it is an emergency)
Him: I like to be able to talk to my son without your boyfriend sitting there watching my son's every move. Son was talking a lot about cuddling last time and now my eye brows are raised.
Me: Yesterday, Lee was trying to get seconds of the dinner I cooked, so he was on the way to the kitchen. He didn't realize you were speaking to son, nor does he want to interrupt your time with son. He actually came back into my room to wait until you both were done out of respect for you.
That said- let's not make this contentious. I am happy to address any questions or concerns you may have without accusing or inflammatory remarks.
Having a child in a divorced family means we both will have other romantic relationships and move on with our lives. Our concern should be that son is healthy, happy and loved by ALL parties.
Him: What about the cuddling issue? I don't believe a six year old should know anything about cuddling
Me: I ask son to cuddle with me every night before he goes to bed. It calms him down so he can sleep in his own room and not run into my room at night. Lee doesn't have any inappropriate physical contact with son.
Him: I will pick son up at 11:30 after his tutoring on Saturday.
Me: OK
Him: Make sure he has sneakers. I'm going to take him for a run. He is out of shape for his age.
Me: (no response)
*Son is bordering being underweight and has a ball of energy. Is he expecting our son to run 5 miles per day?
I have done everything possible to diffuse and avoid drama with my ex. But now it just seems like he is finding ANYTHING to start a fight with.
I got this email yesterday.... (I banned him from texting or calling me unless it is an emergency)
Him: I like to be able to talk to my son without your boyfriend sitting there watching my son's every move. Son was talking a lot about cuddling last time and now my eye brows are raised.
Me: Yesterday, Lee was trying to get seconds of the dinner I cooked, so he was on the way to the kitchen. He didn't realize you were speaking to son, nor does he want to interrupt your time with son. He actually came back into my room to wait until you both were done out of respect for you.
That said- let's not make this contentious. I am happy to address any questions or concerns you may have without accusing or inflammatory remarks.
Having a child in a divorced family means we both will have other romantic relationships and move on with our lives. Our concern should be that son is healthy, happy and loved by ALL parties.
Him: What about the cuddling issue? I don't believe a six year old should know anything about cuddling
Me: I ask son to cuddle with me every night before he goes to bed. It calms him down so he can sleep in his own room and not run into my room at night. Lee doesn't have any inappropriate physical contact with son.
Him: I will pick son up at 11:30 after his tutoring on Saturday.
Me: OK
Him: Make sure he has sneakers. I'm going to take him for a run. He is out of shape for his age.
Me: (no response)
*Son is bordering being underweight and has a ball of energy. Is he expecting our son to run 5 miles per day?