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Reslnt1
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Which shoes would you rather wear?
A. the pair of shoes of the woman who leaves the guys that she is dating when things aren't working and moves on to the next eventhough to many it appears as if you can't "keep a man"
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B. the shoes of the woman who stays in those long dragged out relationships with a man eventhough things haven't been right since waaaaay past last night.
I ask this because a 25yr old woman that i work with asked me, how do i feel being single at my age (31)? Don't i get lonely? Don't i want a man, at my age?
Mind you, she is dating a doctor whom she has caught in the bed with more than one woman, he once invited her to come live with him and two weeks later kicked her out, bought another woman a Range Rover after he moved her & her child from another state and proposed to her...once that woman left him this 25y.o. female took him back only to have him come to the office party with another woman.....and the list goes on
But she is far from the only person i know who has stayed even though their relationships appear as though they should have their own reality t.v. show....many people i know have stayed with their men for a minimum of 3years.....i just found out that one of my friends who has been with her husband for 7years, was being cheated on even b4 they got married, he never helped her pay the rent or any the other bills and he consistently cheated on her...
I'll admit when i kick em to the curb i do initially feel bad (especially with this last one b/c he begged so daggone much) but i can't deal with the headache of a failed relationship..i.e..the arguing, the secret squirrel behavior....i'd rather just let you go....i can't even deal with the drama for a few months i couldn't possibly imagine that kind of headache for a few years.
what about you?
A. the pair of shoes of the woman who leaves the guys that she is dating when things aren't working and moves on to the next eventhough to many it appears as if you can't "keep a man"
OR
B. the shoes of the woman who stays in those long dragged out relationships with a man eventhough things haven't been right since waaaaay past last night.
I ask this because a 25yr old woman that i work with asked me, how do i feel being single at my age (31)? Don't i get lonely? Don't i want a man, at my age?
Mind you, she is dating a doctor whom she has caught in the bed with more than one woman, he once invited her to come live with him and two weeks later kicked her out, bought another woman a Range Rover after he moved her & her child from another state and proposed to her...once that woman left him this 25y.o. female took him back only to have him come to the office party with another woman.....and the list goes on
But she is far from the only person i know who has stayed even though their relationships appear as though they should have their own reality t.v. show....many people i know have stayed with their men for a minimum of 3years.....i just found out that one of my friends who has been with her husband for 7years, was being cheated on even b4 they got married, he never helped her pay the rent or any the other bills and he consistently cheated on her...
I'll admit when i kick em to the curb i do initially feel bad (especially with this last one b/c he begged so daggone much) but i can't deal with the headache of a failed relationship..i.e..the arguing, the secret squirrel behavior....i'd rather just let you go....i can't even deal with the drama for a few months i couldn't possibly imagine that kind of headache for a few years.
what about you?
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