When do you tell a man

[DayStar]

you are a virgin/celibate or whatever....first date...after a certain time period...when?

 

[Qualitee]

When ever he asks or if he doesnt when ever you feel its time to. Most likely it will come up on the first or second date.

 

[Everything Zen]

As soon as he expresses interest. I think it made him fall in love with me even more...

 

[DayStar]

mmmmkay...i use to tell men i was "seeing" real early...but now...i feel out their vibe to decipher if they have real good intentions or not...this brotha..seems like a keeper, so im going to play it out and see what happens.

 

[Theo]

If I like a guy I try to keep it to myself a lil longer. If I don't, I become painfully honest.

 

[drasgrl]

I don't see the point in telling him on the very first date unless you're positive you don't want a second date.

 

[Bunny77]

I don't see the point in telling him on the very first date unless you're positive you don't want a second date.

I agree.

Honestly, it's none of his business to know on a first date, in my opinion. Only if it appears that this is something that could become serious would I bring it up.

I don't think that sex (having it or not having it) should even be discussed on a first date. That's inappropriate.

 

[DayStar]

I agree.

Honestly, it's none of his business to know on a first date, in my opinion. Only if it appears that this is something that could become serious would I bring it up.

I don't think that sex (having it or not having it) should even be discussed on a first date. That's inappropriate.

i agree...ill tell him if i see us going somewhere. Other than that...it will be my personal and confidential secret.

 

[Belle Du Jour]

I agree.

Honestly, it's none of his business to know on a first date, in my opinion. Only if it appears that this is something that could become serious would I bring it up.

I don't think that sex (having it or not having it) should even be discussed on a first date. That's inappropriate.

What she said. Especially the bolded.