kblc06
Well-Known Member
Is this something that you have actually seen? That's really hard for me to imagine.
Now, crochet braids...those were "sewn-in" and I had them as a kid. But, a head full of sewn in hair?? BTW, I have seen lots of little black girls at my son's elementary school with healthy long hair. A lot of them have "shrinkage," so it's hard to see, but you can see how long it is when they get their hair pressed. My niece (age 6) has APL-length hair and most of the girls on her cheerleading squad have long hair (relaxed & natural).
We really need to stop talking about how everyone's hair is unhealthy. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
In the area that I'm in now (Rochester, NY)...it's an unfortunate reality. I was working on a project at an elementary school recently observing 4th and 5th grade classes and I'd say 75% of young black girls were rocking hair that wasn't their own. 45% of that 75% were wearing sew-in weaves- I kid you not! The rest were wearing some form of braid extensions (micros, etc). As a natural, I totally understand the concept of shrinkage, but the majority of the girls were not natural but relaxed bone straight. I only saw 6 girls in the entire building I could say were definitely natural (I may have been mistaken and I can not account for the girls who had sew-ins or micros who may have been natural underneath).
I'm not saying everyone's hair is unhealthy, but it is a much more conspicuous problem than I remember 10 years ago and it's starting at a much younger age. Normally, girls' hair would began to get screwed up when they started taking care of it themselves. But now I'm seeing 4 and 5 year old girls with relaxers, tight ponytails, and no edges....consistently. I don't remember unhealthy being this prevalent; even when short or relaxed, the hair was healthy.
When I'm in the South, I do not see this nearly as much. But I lot more young girls are relaxed now than when I was in elementary school.