yokoyokogirl
New Member
Hummmm thanks for all the replies.
I'm still not sure what I think of it all.
Since my personal situation, I have met more and more gay men in the Navy. I'm not thinking ALL navy men are gay, they aren't--but the whole reason I gave a Japanese man a chance in the first place is cause the two navy guys I went on dates with BEFORE him were 1. still married and 2. trying to ho around.
It's funny cause EVERYTHING in my life seems in control now, my job and etc, but not my personal romance life. I seriously analyze these men and think they all have something going on that's suspect.
And in Japan, counselors are near impossible to find. Japanese ppl don't seem to believe in getting help b/c of the stigma attached...but I'm gonna find someone to talk to--not just another girlfriend who's having issues herself.
So I guess that's something I need to do--find a therapist--I think they have them more in Tokyo...
I'm still not sure what I think of it all.
Since my personal situation, I have met more and more gay men in the Navy. I'm not thinking ALL navy men are gay, they aren't--but the whole reason I gave a Japanese man a chance in the first place is cause the two navy guys I went on dates with BEFORE him were 1. still married and 2. trying to ho around.
It's funny cause EVERYTHING in my life seems in control now, my job and etc, but not my personal romance life. I seriously analyze these men and think they all have something going on that's suspect.
And in Japan, counselors are near impossible to find. Japanese ppl don't seem to believe in getting help b/c of the stigma attached...but I'm gonna find someone to talk to--not just another girlfriend who's having issues herself.
So I guess that's something I need to do--find a therapist--I think they have them more in Tokyo...