drappedup
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Okay, I am asking a genuine curious question of mine. I've asked female friends IRL recently as well, but wasn't satisfied with the answers (kind of vague and/or inarticulate).
Anyway, the past couple of years, dating in my young adult life I have come to realize that seemingly many females have sex with the man they're dating/interested in/etc. with a couple of dates or days/weeks of seeing each other. I don't really have an opinion either way, though I personally don't and I always feel so lame when my friends are asking when or when a guy is wanting sex and I have to explain I don't have sex outside of real relationships, but I've always wondered....particularly as of recent....what is the point of having casual sex with a guy after a few dates or meetings? I'm just curious to see what responses people come up with since most females in my age group seem to do it, and I am a little more suspicious and future minded and over-analyze IRL, lol.
From what I've observed and been told when asked, sometimes it has a lot to do with just enjoying sex or wanting to be liberated and a modern day woman. However, I've had friends flat out admit they did it out of obligation or to keep interest. I'm just wondering as a female who is majorly paranoid and distrustful, and constantly thinking of the worst case scenario with men, lol. This has been on my mind a lot recently because of a guy I've become involved with, and of course things headed in THAT direction, and I logically reasoned out of it because I didn't think enough was in it for me. And, yes, the guy was shocked.
Sooooo, anyway, I'm interested in answers. From all types of opinions.
Anyway, the past couple of years, dating in my young adult life I have come to realize that seemingly many females have sex with the man they're dating/interested in/etc. with a couple of dates or days/weeks of seeing each other. I don't really have an opinion either way, though I personally don't and I always feel so lame when my friends are asking when or when a guy is wanting sex and I have to explain I don't have sex outside of real relationships, but I've always wondered....particularly as of recent....what is the point of having casual sex with a guy after a few dates or meetings? I'm just curious to see what responses people come up with since most females in my age group seem to do it, and I am a little more suspicious and future minded and over-analyze IRL, lol.
From what I've observed and been told when asked, sometimes it has a lot to do with just enjoying sex or wanting to be liberated and a modern day woman. However, I've had friends flat out admit they did it out of obligation or to keep interest. I'm just wondering as a female who is majorly paranoid and distrustful, and constantly thinking of the worst case scenario with men, lol. This has been on my mind a lot recently because of a guy I've become involved with, and of course things headed in THAT direction, and I logically reasoned out of it because I didn't think enough was in it for me. And, yes, the guy was shocked.
Sooooo, anyway, I'm interested in answers. From all types of opinions.